Congrats on the project, wyndhy! It's an exciting and terrifying time. Don't let the stress keep you from enjoying what you can.

I've never had a house built for me, but am on #2 for Habitat. That's different though. We have a little flexibility, but all in all...we provide affordable housing with not a lot of frills. One thing I'd suggest is to have every room wired for computers, cable tv & telephones. It's cheaper to never use them than to wire one afterwards.


Oh yeah, don't forget the hidden cameras.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.