Our bed has all kinds of bars that can be used for tie downs... Wanna borrow it? (Pay no attention to the hidden camera in the closet. ) It's a pretty good height for me to stand while she's on the bed, but I hate to admit I haven't tried bending her over the footboard yet.

BTW, you've prolly seen them, but they make restraints for use on beds like yours.

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