I'm sure this will come as a complete shock to everyone here...but I do mind seeing naked women. Mrs. WI in particular. Now before you jump down my throat about what an a**hole husband I am, chew on this: Mrs. WI does not wear clothes at night. Any clothes at all. When the kids go to bed, she strips naked. My problem is not that I don't find her attractive and sexy, in fact it's the polar opposite. I think she's beautiful and I get turned on when I see her nude body. We talk, and it's always a battle trying not to look at her naked chest, her curvy hips, and her cute little patch of hair...um...down there. She escalates things by absently playing with her pubics. Then she thinks I'm a pig because I wanna pounce her. She doesn't understand how difficult it is to see her nude ALL the time, and not get excited.

But to put this in the same context...I'd love to see her naked on the beach! Surrounded by other nudies, male & female! Woot! I'm sure I'd pay the price for it in sexual frustration later though.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.