whats a guy gotta do...
 

sooo...
i've been casually fooling around with this chica for a few weeks. its nothing serious, and i think both of us know it, but its fun for now. except...whats a guy gotta do to get a little satisfaction? i'm good to her, and i like to think i'm good at what i do, and i think she agrees. problem is, she'll never go down. i'm a little shy so i don't really like askin straight up, but i'm gettin antsy. ladies, how do you feel about guys bein pushy? i'd appreciate advice or anyone who wants to go down on me (dammit, thinkin out loud again).

soxfan

Dude, just ask her! What's she gonna do, kick your ass? (you wish!) LOL

going down
 

DON'T ASK!! at least not cold... why not try going down on her first? or try fingering her... bet she'd be more willing then.

Re: going down
 

If she doesn't want to go down on you it's maybe because
she's afraid of getting a mouthful of semen. Some may find
this a little gross.

In the spirit of play get a couple of pairs of edible undies
and eat them off her. Get a pack of flavoured condoms in
in her favourite flavour and see how she reacts. She'll
feel safe from the icky bits and more likely to get into it.

It's a shared joy, not one person's expectations.