Knowing what you know now......
 

Would you have become sexually active when you did, or would you have waited?



Why or why not? :D

While I hate to refuse sex, I would have waited. The best ( and possible right ) person did not come around until later.

Of course, we could always consider the earlier attempts as practice!

Neither, actually. I would have started much sooner.

As I said in the 'first time' thread I would have waited. It would have been four years I'd have waited, but it would have been worth it since I deeply regret getting involved in the relationship I was in.

Then again, there was something good that came out of that relationship, in that I gained the sexual confidence to do some things that my 'one true man' likes :-)

Seeing as how it wasn't THAT long ago, I still think I had it at the perfect time for myself (18, now I'm 22)...no regrets here, and no wishes to put it off later. I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who knows they had their first experience with the right person.

BCG

Well, I started when I was 12...oh yes, EVERYTHING. And no, I wouldn't trade that "head start" for anything. I think sexual "ability" and creativity come through experience and confidence. 20 years later I'm thankful for everything I've learned and experienced...and my new gf seems to appreciate it too :D

I would have started earlier, I was a lousy lay back then, I've learned a few things since....;)

*shrug* it's just sex.

Some folks maintain that it isn't how you start but how you finish.
The first time was pretty good, I still remember it but it wasn't the best time and I wouldn't want to do that again! Partly because I don't remember it all.....
hummm... 17ish was about the right time to start for me, It wasn't really about my time, but my time with that girl.

it may have been better if i had waited till i had worked
thou my mess on my sexuality

I think it was the right time for me, I just wasn't very good. Thank goodness you learn from your experiences!

I am still waiting ;)

I think the time was right.

Without my mistakes then I'd never have become me.

I tend to agree, actually, with Oldfart's mindset. Everything we've done in our lives so far, good and bad, have brought us to this point and made us who we are.