I need help....
 

The thing is, I have recently discovered (ie.. 2 months or so ago) that i am bisexual. & also that i am in love with a mate of mine. we r really close & she knows that im bi. iv bin out wit her twice, & each time the resulsts hav been quite intemate. for instence we fell asleep in each others arms & we talk about eachother constantly apparently. i dont quite know if she likes me or not, but im plannin on telling her wen she comes back from her hols. i dont know how 2 tell her tho, & am lookin 4 advice on how 2 do this. cheers:)

Hmmm... it sounds like things are "progressing" quite naturally and it might be that you just let that happen. I'm not sure I understand your question... what, exactly are you "looking for?" Just telling her she means a lot, etc. should not be that difficult.

If you're looking for some sort of commitment to a better defined relationship, that can get complex.

If you'd like to have sex with her, just let your hands roam before you "fall asleep in each other's arms" and see what the reaction is...

What ever it is, communication is answer of course... with your words and your hands and your eyes...

Keep us posted! (Pun intended)

hey thanks wally if thats what i should call u, it does help i little. my friends say i should tell her that i really like her, but i dont know whether to or not. i just dont know what her reaction would be like. for now, when she comes home, il just let things' naturally progress' and see where this takes me.
thanks again!!

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just let nature take its course : )

so, is any1 else sortof in a similar position as me??:confused:

You're Welcome
 

You're welcome... my guess is your friend already senses you have a "special relationship" - just continue to enjoy it together for a while and see what happens... to answer your second question, I think that happens in most relationships (bisexual and not). The relationship grows... we wonder how the other person feels, etc.

Relationships require effort, but sometimes they get ruined when we try to label them and define them.

Have you spoken to your mate about this ? Does he know your
bi-sexual ? Would this present a problem for him ?

I think a lot me feel that it's not really cheating if it's with another
woman..............Would he consider it cheating?????

If you love him, you owe it to your relationship to find out how
he feels about all this.........

no no, i think somewhere something is misunderstood. im single @ the moment, an my mate (who is the female 1 i fancy) knows im bi-sexual, but doesnt know i fancy her, an i dont know how to tell her that i really really like her without her perhaps getting upset.

no no, i think somewhere something is misunderstood. im single @ the moment, an my mate (who is the female 1 i fancy) knows im bi-sexual, but doesnt know i fancy her, an i dont know how to tell her that i really really like her without her perhaps getting upset.