Virginity, and losing it.
 

well I'm just here to ask, what girls think of losing their virginity? what goes through your mind when it happens? what reasons you choose to do it. is as horrible as I'm told? why do guys and girls make a deal of getting it over with? what you thought of your first times. and anything I may have not asked as far as giving a future woman good advice please.....ok, now the guys, I want to know what makes a virgin such a thing for you all. why guys dont seem to have a problem asking over and over for sex with us? whats in it for a guy to have a virgin? does it even bother a guy ( be honest ) to have sex with a virgin? and what in your opinions is too long to hold on to virginity? and anything else you guys want to add. please respond soon! thanks Angela.

It was not how I imagined. I had all those silly fantasies generations of fairy tales drill in your brain. Losing my virginity was a let down but since then, I've learned to trust myself and others enough to allow them to become intimate partners. Something that lusty teenage fumbling, doesn't hold a candle to.

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I dont quite understand???

I was 18 when I lost mine. I certainly didnt rush to "get it over with" and honestly it was a fine night. Not because of the sex, because of who I was with and the feelings we had.

You should hold onto your virginity as long as you feel the need to. It's a personal decision.

ok? but?
 

I'm looking for more answers please!!!

Then maybe you should have been more specific!

Maybe you should review the answers you got the last time you asked. http://216.150.68.37/forums/showthread.php?t=27482

well open to anymore words of wisdom?!?!

Direct snippets of wisdom:
- Use a condom
- Pick a man you trust, who won't talk about you to your friends
- Don't expect the first time to be perfect (they never are)

What was I thinking about? Well, the pain (he was kinda large) and also about how much I loved him and wanted to share this with him.

Does it hurt? Depends. Some women...yes. Others say no.


Bottom line? Every person's experience is unique.

I was 19 when I lost my virginity. (In fact, I was 19 when I got my first kiss - but that's another thread.) When it happened, I was ready - the man I was with was quite older than me, and I trusted him not to hurt me. For me, making love to Lake for the first time wasn't "losing my virginity" - it was making love to a really cool guy with whom I was honestly falling in love. When it happened, there was a moment of "Oh, is that it?" (I had broken my hymen myself years ago), before all such silly thoughts left my head.

Why did I do it? Because I wanted to. Because we wanted to. Because his fingers and mouth made me feel so damn good I knew it would be fantastic. Because he (genuinely) cared about me.

How old are you, LilAngie?

well Neige will you get upset??

Will I get upset if what?

i sent you a message neige!

I don't understand why I'd be upset - I'm merely asking because the advice for which you are looking could vary according to your age.

may we talk privately away from here pleae neige?!!