Blowjobs...style...
 

Okay...regarding the giving or getting of blowjobs. What style do you prefer. The woman takes the lead and the man just lays back and receives or the man being a little aggresive and fucking (gently) her mouth.

Bit of both really... I like to take the lead at first, but when I've got him really hot and bothered then I like it when he starts to play back (though if I feel like teasing I won't let him do anything but sit really, really still...)

I guess I sort of prefer her to take the lead but to be honest I've only really had one in my life that even got me close to an orgasm. :(

Fussy is like that too Iowaman - I can find it a little disheartening as it makes me think my technique is no good. Unfortunately, it's rather difficult to ask any previous partners how many marks out of ten I'd get. :(

i think its a little bit of both..If we are in 69 honestly i can't concentrate on him at all. argh.. i swallow so would rather get him off and then he laast longer.:) method to my madness

I enjoy both with her taking the lead. Then I want her to climb aboard so I can outlast her over the edge.....

It depends om the women., if she is aggressive I'l lay back and let her go for it. If she is submissive I will fack fuck her. Both ways I want her to swallow the load.

I'm just happy to be getting a blow job. She has said in the past she prefers it when I take charge. Of course this like most things could change with her mood.

WHAT THEY SAID^^^^^^^^^^^^^! :slurp:

BJ practice
 

Not "practicing" but how I practice the art of oral sex.
For men, I prefer semi -public venues, doorways, corner booths in bars, or cars. I squat or kneel as I prefer for the circumstance, such as location or his height vs mine (sigh), and fellate him.
I love to look up and see the strain on his face, and the feel of control it gives me.

Recently I have added a particular "standard" technique, something I usually only did by request. When he starts to cum, I take him as deep as I can and suck, very very hard. I have learned to be better at deep throating recently, and this seems to give men intense pleasure.

(Unless he wants to paint my face or breasts, tastes vary. Was that a pun?)

:bj:

WW

I subscribe to the WW theory, cos it sounds best.

Seriously, there was one woman in my life who was THE headjob queen, the rest dabblers in the fellatial arts.

I'm sure it's a personal thing though, OF. A Queen to you could be dreadful for someone else, no?

As I said before, I have little/no confidence in my own abilities anymore, although I like to think that I used to be good at it once upon a time.

Either/Or is ok with me.

:)

Clearly, there were issues to be dealt with for the other 23+ hours of the day.

Hold your head up, Lou, any man that knows will tell you there's no such thing as a bad BJ...some have a different response level, is all...I myself would like a little more response from my lady when I'm giving oral, but I have no doubt that she is enjoying the experience in her own way.

I might add, depending on the moods of my partner & myself, either one or any combo of the 2 can be hot...