I guess we are doing something right....
 

As parents we always worry about stuff that our kids are getting into or influences that they are exposed to. I ran across this that my daughter, age 12, wrote in her blog...( I monitor it daily) LOL

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Hi! Welcome to __ Central. My name is Princess, and I'll be your help today. First of all, we're going to spend four hours blow drying and straightening your hair, not to mention dying it the exact same colour as all of your friends, even though it looked better before we touched it. Here's your padded push-up bra that will make you look like a ridiculously fake 34C, and of course, your pair of pink army print Dorinhas in a size 0, even though you're obviously a size 5. It's okay, it's totally sexy when your hips and beer belly ooze over the tops of your pants. You can wear whatever shirt you want as long as it shows cleavage and matches your trendy name-brand shoes.

We're also going to pierce your tongue, nipples, clitoris, ears and belly button so you can list all your piercings to anybody that will listen, because it's just so incredibly sexy to have a piece of metal sticking out of your ####.

There are boys all over this park ranging from ages 15 to 20. Please have sex with as many as possible, and then brag about it to everyone. You can lie about your age if you think that will make them respect you more. It won't, but you might as well try. Also, find another hot little girl that will make out with you and fondle your fake boobies so that onlooking guys can get a boner and you can say, proudly, "I inspired that with my pseudo-bisexuality, which is SO hot right now."

Whenever our #### hip hop music comes on, you must begin grinding with whatever boy or girl is closest to you. You may not, under any circumstances, actually DANCE unless you are shaking your ass. Also, it's pretty much an ongoing party here, so drink as much of your Bacardi Breezers and smoke as much of your fake boyfriend's pot as you can. You're SO much more attractive and funny when you're drunk/ripped off your face.

If you see anyone in the park that is NOT an __ or the companion of an __, you must sneer at/whisper about them to your friends. If you are feeling particularly brave and/or pre-menstrual, you can say something to them along the lines of, "OMG liek nice shirt, where'd you buy it, ?" and then collapse in fits of hapless giggles with your make-out sisters.

Here's your complimentary Paris Hilton perfume, 50 Cent CD and fake Louis Vuitton purse. The purse is completely pointless since it's only about as big as your pinky and you can't even fit your shiny pink cell phone into it, but that's okay, because the cell phone's only for show anyway. The only people that call you are your parents and your best friend, asking what outfit you're wearing tomorrow so you girls can co-ordinate and act like it was by accident. Oh, and that guy that you gave a blow job to last week at that party MIGHT call if you leave enough messages for him.

PS: Please, no less than three inches of your super-sexy black g-string may hang out of your pants. That's all. Have fun, girlies

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Her comments below -

this is the reason why I hate most girls and why 80% of my friends are guys

ugg okay that was my rant on girls

ok sorry if I’ve come across as a bitch, or if I’ve offended anyone. it’s jut my opinion so don’t let it get to you. but I wont be offended if you have anything to say back to me in your defense. i actually wanna hear from you

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My daughter is an individual and doesn't go with the crowd. She is ostracized (sp) but doesn't really care. She is smart, beautiful, and her own person already. I am still a mom to her, but she tells me much of what happens in her life. She comes to me for advice on guys, sex, and friends - she knows that I will tell it to her straight and not pull punches. I can tell her I am disappointed in her behavior, but she knows I still love her. I haven't reached bitch status yet, I am sure that I will at some time, but that is ok too.

Is this the one I wanted to give my whip to?

I was like that too. Just me, not part of the crowd. I was fine with it. I did what I was comfortable with no more, no less.

Kudos to you Chey for raising an independent thinker.

LMAO. I like her sense of humor.

Was I that grown up when I was 12? :spin:

Sometimes I wish kids could just be kids...

You've done the job. :thumb:
The nightmarish journey through adolescence is only harder on them than their parents.:eek: Yet we all make it.:) Coming out on the right side only happens if they are pointed in the right direction ….. (with luck ;) )

Yes Auntie Lil... she is the one! LOL

She constantly amazes me with the way she thinks and acts. I wasn't like this growing up, but then I wasn't exposed to much of what she is then either.

We just bought her a pair of hot pink "boat" style tennis shoes that have black skulls on them.. roflmao!!! She says that if the others talk about her, then they aren't talking about others who can't handle it...

The other day she was in gym class. The teacher told the girls that if they ran so many laps they could have a free PE period. The 'preppies' were picking on a girl who can't run laps very well - so much that the girl was crying. They figured that if she didn't run the laps they wouldn't be blamed for not having free time because they didn't want to run. My daughter was angry and decided that wasn't going to happen. She ran with this girl all the way, paced herself with this girl and encourged her to keep going to the point of showing this girl how to 'shuffle' her feet to make it look like she was jogging. They were last to finish, but they finished.

The school has a character counts program and students who show good character are rewarded. The teacher figured out what my daughter was doing and after the run, called her over to give her the reward. My daughter jutted out her chin and told the teacher she didn't want it. The teacher asked why and my daughter said, "because we should be doing this anyway". (The teacher told me all of this).

:huh: Boat shoes in Iowa? Has she ever seen a boat? :confused:











:roflmao:

Like these but pink???

http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/st...845524442124195

Cheyanne,

Well done. :thumb: In the end, it is worth it, isn't it? :)

Yes.. exactly like that except hot pink and the skull & crossbones is just ont he top! LOL... too funny. She loves that store! :D

Me too. :D If only they had it when I was her age.

yes Jseal - it is always worth it. :D

You know, Cheyanne...if your daughter chooses to become a part of the fetish community when she becomes an adult (piercings, tattoos, body mods, etc. are de rigueur in their world), she'll look back on this particular paragraph and say to herself, "What was I thinking? Ah, the innocence of youth!"

You have every right to feel proud, you have done an amazing job! "hugs"

Reading this definitely qualifies for the "What made me smile today," thread. Oh god, that was terrific. Reminds me that things are a whole lot different now than when I was a 12 year old IowaBoy. Then again, that was about a quarter century ago.

That's awsome Chey!!!

Kiddo getting older scares me. I hope her and I can maintain a good friendship. She still trusts me now even thou her and I get into it.