pleasure?
 

lol me here again with a few more of my major sexual delimas (way too much drama put into that lol) ok , first of all my fiance is prone to depression then again we both are but when it comes to sex she sometimes gets really depressed because she's never made me cum with her hands or mouth, and she feels like she's letting me down and gets all down on herself nomatter how much I reasure her that it really isn't all that important to me I'm her first so it's not like she's had a whole lot of practice but when I tell her that she just brings up how She was my first as well and I made her cum my first try and everything, I'd really like to keep her from getting depressed and everything is there anything I can do ?
thanks in advance
Omni

Re: pleasure?
 

It's not bowling practice.

1. Get rid of the expectation bullshit. So long
as she feels that she's failing, she's under
extra pressure which is counter productive.

2. Each man has different things that really work
for him. Porno movie technique of "her mouth
is just another cunt" is rubbish. It'll take trial
and error. Suggestion, the underside of the
penis is generally more sensitive than the upper
side, with an occasional visit to the head.

3. If she has trouble with her hands, are you using a
lubricant? The slide over the skin is wonderful and
if you use a flavoured lubricant, she can use her
mouth as well.

4. I trust you will be posting the results.