Cam to Cam Exhibitionism
 

If you are a frequenter of chat rooms, you will find it'd the boys who are looking for girls to watch them play with their manhood. Few if any girls take them up on the offer. And I know this is just a difference in the temperament of the sexes. Men have a cock and they want women to like it, its really as simple as that, and women don't give a damn. I think that women on the other hand (in the main) prefer actions and don't "get off" on watching, and also are in charge of their own pleasures, which is why you don't see them asking the boys if they want to watch them (Except of course the ones that charge money for the privilege)

Would be interested in hearing candid views on this observation. Does watching someone jerk of on cam turn you on?

Yes, but only if it's someone I'm REALLY REALLY attracted to.

Sharing masturbation with somebody special is a turn-on.
I’m not a “frequenter of chat rooms”, but with the few I do go to, I can only agree with part of your statement.

The rest of it is up for review.

Unfortunately many of the "women" trolling for sex online have cocks too :D

ROFLMAOWSMA! Way to true.

I dont mind watching a guy or girl get off.....my problem is timing *L*...my kids are usually around when i get a request to veiw

I do not frequent chatrooms anymore

Well in my brief time as a web cam ho, before Fussy and I got together, I'd much rather have been watched than watch, but I agree all the guys online are desperate to let you watch them tug on their todgers. I think it's in part laziness, as if you are watching them, they feel they don't have to type. Most would rather have a captive audience telling them how big their cock is and how sexy they look to help them achieve climax, rather than trying to give pleasure to the woman who's watching them. In the main, I find it fairly unexciting to watch, and since you can rarely make out the cum shot on a guy's webcam, which is the only bit I'd really get off on watching, I don't find it that stimulating. I'd rather have some hot dirty talk, but most men seem to lack the imagination, motivation and vocabulary to be really good at that.

She ^^ really doesn't pull any punches...but in general I agree with her.

I've never been a camho and I'm grateful I don't associate with "most men". All my online male friends are sexy as hell, verbally, socially, cybertronically. ;) But I meet most of my friends here at Pixies, explains a lot. I also don't give the time of day to strangers. I'd never cyber or cam with someone I wasn't crazy attracted to in the first place. That doesn't happen in a 5 minute convo and by then I'd have figured out if they had what I was looking for in an online partner.

Lilith,

I once tried this camera sex bit, but the refresh rate on my daguerrotype was a bit rough.

~Collapses wounded with arrow buried deep in heart~

Oh Glyndwr, when did I ever tell you you're 'most men'?????

You would definitely be counted as one of the exceptions that prove the rule, and you know it. ;)

Ouch... ouch.... ouch....

I love to watch in real life, but on the cam I don't like it so much. Mainly because I get off on watching his hand sliding up and down, going faster and faster as he smooths his pre-cum all over the head and down the shaft. Then shooting long, hot streams of cum everywhere. On cam it's too delayed to enjoy the full affect of how good he is. :)