Guys use some decorum
 

Not for the first time I have been told by a female Pixie friend that some guys who have seen her pics in Pixies have IM'ed her and have made her uncomfortable with crude and suggestive messages. Ones that she has not sought or wants to recieve. It doesnt happen in Pixies but on her IM which she has now removed from her profile.

My Curvy got some very suggestive PM's which she politely declined but was surprised at the amount.

Some ladies like that stuff but the majority dont so test the water before allowing your hormones to take over. Our ladies share very personal stuff with us and it is a privelidge that we should savour but not think that they are looking for anything more than our appreciative comments.

here, here!

Always have respect as you would if you saw them in person.
I would never walk up to someone in the street and say Hey want to fuck. Hmm. Well there was this one time in college. But that is another story.

THANK U SO GRUMBLE!! dont get me wrong, i LUV to recieve IMs and PMs telling me what ya thought of the pics. luv the flirty ones as well, but the blatented "ive never chatted w u and i didnt reply to ur post but wanna fuck neways " is kinda a turn off :( i like to be romanced HEHEHEHHEHEHE ;;) and i LUV a man that knows how to do it :D

~nikki

(hugs grumbles) (hugs texascubsfan and catch22 for agreeing) yall rock

Couldn't have said it better myself, Grumble! And I've heard a few of the same horror stories myself. Guys, c'mon! Have a little class. "Show me yer boobies" isn't cool. Albeit, somewhat funny if said to a friend at the appropriate time.... :p :D

Here ya go darogle.... hehehe

:boobs:

(sorry...couldn't resist)

Holy crap! It actually worked!!!

LOL

Now you know why guys say it :p

Well said, Grumble. You're absolutely right!

Oh don't let him fool you. he says it. LOL He just doesn't say it enough to ME! :p

Well, how often does he really need to make such a request of you? ;)

Thanks for making this thread Grumble. Its a big problem that many women face on these types of boards. It was really bad when I was a newbie.

It pisses me off to get some PM asking if I want to "cyber" or "how do I like sex" without even bothering to say "Hi, I would like to get to know you"

I like getting PM's and have met some of my best friends through them. As for IM. I don't put that in my profile. I will say PM me for it and then check out their posting history and get to know them a little first.

I love that our guys look out for us! Well stated Grumble!

Well he better be wanting to see or I'm not doing something right. LOL