I have done it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

GG has finally moved on !!!

I am now in my own flat (roughly translates to apartment for my american cousins) and am no longer in the little dungeon under the former family home.

God its good to live in a multi roomed place again all the time with no nagging spouse (now ex) telling me wahat to do and when :)

It was a hard thing to move away from my kids and i will miss them a lot but they will see me regain my spirit and dignity which will help them understand more fully.

It has cost me dearly in wordly terms as I have signed the house over but I am my own person again.

The support and encouragement from pixies people has been wonderful and has helped me a lot in making the decision and acting on it.

Thanks everyone

Hugs Grumble

GG.......... I can't tell you just how proud I am of you... you have taken a risk that has been long overdue...

You are 100% correct in believing that as your children see you grow and regain the man that you have lost they will become so very proud of you.

I wish you all the best... and I know that you will not only survive on your own, you will thrive :)

Hugs...

GG, I'm sure hoping that everything works out for you now. Will continue to keep you in our thoughts! ;)

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I truly hope that this move was made for YOU...and not because of any encouragement on my part! I know it's the right thing to do....but I love knowing that YOU know it was the right thing to do!

BTW peeps.....I offered my decorating technique and skills......but gg had it all done before I could set down a lamp......lmao!

Sooooooooo......where ya setting the X-mas tree? That's one of the first things I envision when I am looking to settle in somewhere new!

Keep your eye on your (very own) mailbox hun!

*hugs n kisses*

GG,

Nothing can replace dignity & spirit within a person and believe me, it will show to everyone, especially your kids....

Good for you and good luck!

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Yes Lixy, GG decided to go with my suggested décor. :) He liked the pictures of my office so much he has done his whole home that way. It took him a long time to print out ALL the Pixie ladies pictures for the 3 walls of each room with the drip cloth all along the bottom. He’s still working on the “Panty Wall” for each room.:D LOL


Well done mate!:) You are damn near back to being a person again. Job’s in order, you’re now positioned to take command of yourself and your tending to obligations. Not much else you can do before addressing life on its terms. I’m sure you’ll decide where you go from here. Luck to you pal.:)

Congrats GG!!! ... May every day just keep getting better for you!

WELL DONE YOU!!!!!!!!

I am so pleased for you GG my friend. Its up and onwards from now on hun.

HUGSSSSSSSSS

Congratulations GG! Along with everything else...think how good the lesson will be for your kids....they'll know now that they never have to stay in a soul destroying situation. It's so exciting when you realize that today really is "the first day of the rest of your life." I'm sure you'll make it a great one!

Good on ya mate, you deserve a little peace, happiness and dignity!

All the best for the future my friend! You've done the right thing, and the rewards will keep coming thick and fast!

<wipes hand on jeans, then shakes your hand>
Well done mate!
CasperTG

grumbleguts,

Best of wishes and luck on your personal journey.

Congrats, GG! I hope everything works out for you and I'm sure Murphy wishes you the best too. :D

This is exactly what I went through about five years ago.

I felt like a new man from day one. You have to be strong and good to yourselft first for your kids to see the good in you, and for them to see how a man should be.

Good luck through the ups and downs!

CONGRATS!!!!!
that is so wonderful
~nikki~