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Threesomes with Friends

I really really want a threesome with my girlfriend, we have discussed and both agreed this would be a major turn on!

Whilst on holiday we met up and she told me i could arrange one for when she got back.....7 months later and no 3some.

I want to arrange one for just after Christmas with a friend. Good or bad idea?

Tell me about it if you've ever done this! Wanna hear both sides of the tail, plus sexy details!

Thanks

my only warning is to proceed with caution.. sometimes turning a fantasy into a reality can be risky business... kinda depends on how serious ( and interested) both of you are...

you don't say fmf or mfm. i tried mfm once and will never again. i found just getting brushed a major turn-off. as far as fmf i want to try but think if i go pick up someone and then try to bring my lady into it i'll be playing witth a dangerous situation. so i've been waiting for her to find us someone. been waiting about a year now.

The dangerous part would be if you went out lookin on your own lol.....i keep telling you lets just go out and browse :) Its alot easier going out places than it is trying to find someone online.I think we both know that......no the mfm didn't work but this ffm could and you know i want as much as you do baby...best of both worlds:)I wanna see the smile on your face....well that is if someone isn't sittin on it :):):)

The fantasy bit is important - fantasy can be very diff to reality.

It's best discussed openly, with no recriminations or guilt and with humour. But you both need to consider realistically how you would feel seeing your partner doing it with someone else?

And whoever you ask to join in needs to talk about it too.

for some people the surprise maybe good, but it could be disaster.

good luck

wildeye

When dz and i did the mfm thing,we both went into knowing that it could either bring us closer together or tear us apart....and the the thought was scary but,i didn't want him to hate me afterwards.Needless to say it didn't go well i just wanted it over with.After the other dude left i must say we had some of the best
sex ever....it was quite a night,and it didn't break us up.The main thing i think when getting into anything like this is knowing who you're with and who the 3rd party is lol...i'd be more than happy to let dz have his time with 2 chics just as long as i'm #1 lol as he is to me:)

Sharni - you LUCKY b***! Lol. :D

But seriously, I've never done it, but would love to one day. Either way (in fact, both ways) but I'm nore into the idea of a MFM. I think that for me the only way it would work would be if I were not in a relationship with either of the parties involved. If we were all single and just up for some fun I imagine it would be far less complicated than doing it with a partner and a third person. I can't imagine that it can be a great experience for the third person.

I also think that a MFM would work best if, as a couple, you agree that same sex partners do the choosing. i.e. the girl chooses the girl for a MFF and the guy chooses the other guy for a MFM. And for guys, I think it probably helps if the guy is a trusted friend. A freind of mine had an MFM and he suggested that the sex was almost more of a male bonding exercise than anything else (and no there wasn't any gay stuff going on). It was about two good friends sharing an intense experience and becoming closer for it.

Ok, I'll shut up now, because I'm getting all twitchy thinking about this! Lol

Note to self, Become Bilbo's Best Mate!:D

i tried it once with an old gf and my friend and i found it quite bad cos she decided to dump me and fuck him instead - after the threesome (she split up with me and got with him) i would try it again. on another note - my brothers girlfriend said she really wanted to get hold of me and my gf (who is bi and its ok with me) and i dont know what to do cos both me and my gf wanna do it but we cant cos its my bros gf

My only threesome was with a married man and this girl, i cant remember her name for the life of me but we had had a nparty and everyone was creshed out right there in the living room, and it was me, mj and *girl* and i took her pussy and breast and then we would switch off it was amazing, i felt a little bad afterwards because he was married and all but it was my first lesbian expirence, i knew that i was BI but i had never acted out, but from that day forward, i have taken every chance i can get to be with another woman!!

Wellung - so you want to try fmf. What m doesn't? Can recommend it BUT don't ever give your partner a push to get what you want. She'll resent it afterwards for sure. Plant the idea with her and get her ready to give permission when the right circumstances arise. Let her chose who you dance with and let her invite them home. And if you can save your first orgasm for her, so much the better.