| Loulabelle |
07-08-2004 03:03 AM |
I was 18 when I received my first facial, and at the time I had no idea that it was a common 'practise', or even that it had a name.
I was in an unsual situation (which I won't go into here) whereby my lover at the time, was only able to come through masturbation, rather than intercourse, which led to lots of imaginative love making, all of which I relished.
One time in his room, I started to masturbate, in the hopes that he'd join in, which he did. He just happened to be kneeling by my head and as it got hotter and hotter, he started to mumur something about cumming on my face.....he was already masturbating so close to my face that I could feel his cock brushing against my cheek, and I was so turned on , I just said 'yes'. By the end of it I was begging him to do it, and when he finally did it was all over my face, neck, hair - everywhere. In fact, my man seemed to find it a particular turn on that it ended up in my hair. I think so many women, including me, are fussy about what their hair looks like, that it was a turn on for him that at that moment, my mind was purely on sex, purely on his orgasm, purely on him, so I didn't give a shit about my hair or whatever. And after all......hair can be washed, can't it?!
It was so spontaneous, but at the same time I'd had enough time to really heat up to the idea and talking dirty about it before hand just made it such a turn on. I have very sensitive cheeks (as do most women - it's officially one of our erogenous zones) so being able to feel every single jet of hot sperm shoot onto my face made me feel so much a part of my man's orgasm.
I'd never seen a porno or heard anything about facials, so I had no pre-conceptions about it being demeaning.....it just felt wild and free and dirty which was, far from demeaning - it was a liberating experience. Since then, despite being self conscious about my body, being a woman who 'takes it on the face' has always given me a kind of sexual confidence that I need. I also find it a compliment to the part of my body over which a guy cums. If he actively wants to see my tits, my arse or my pussy dripping with his cum, it makes me feel that he finds that part of me attractive. Knowing that he'd like to see my face in that way, is therefore, to me, the ultimate compliment.
On a slightly different note: any sexual act between consenting adults is only demeaning if one or other of the people in the act finds it so. Who cares whether the woman in the porn film is being demeaned? I've seen plenty of porn films where women have obviously unwillingly been given facials, and others where they are obviously loving it - porn is not a realistic portrayal of sex - the women in those films are being paid to have sex with someone they may have only met that morning, so you can't expect that their experiences of a sexual act are going to be akin to your own. If you know that your man has respect and love for you and is not demeaning you, then why not give yourselves both a pleasurable experience. The whole point about sex is that it's a private thing between two people and unless you choose to tell others about what you do, it's your little secret to share, leaving you free to do as you please without having to worry about what others would think. That's surely one of the greatest things about it.
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