My first THREESOME (FMF)
 

Ok I need help....

I have been offered a chance to be in a threesome. I really want to but it is with a really good girlfriend of mine and her boyfriend. I am not worried about being attracted to the guy because honestly he is not my type. So there is nothing there. But I need to know what to ask so we make sure all the cards are on the table. Any advise is helpful.....

I just dont want it to be weird afterwards....

"Discretion assured and EXPECTED"........to ensure no details ever leave the room......have fun!!!!!.....you got my mind wandering tonight!!!! :}

wtf was I thinking???....I assumed you wanted discretion.....but...feel free to snap a few photos and post at your leisure :)

Well, first of all, ignore Jbh3's advice. We all want desperately to hear about how it went. If you don't do this you will always wonder about it in frustration. Talk to your g/f about ground rules and tell her if you have any major no-no's. Other than that, try to relax and enjoy it for what it is. Sex and great fun.
Good luck and remember to tell us about it afterward.

I had one with my bff and a guy she was seeing about 12 years ago. No lasting weirdness, but I think the experience would have been better had I been sexually attracted to both parties...and I wasn't really comfortable doing very much with her. My suggestion is not to do it with a super-close friend.

Keep in mind, you can't entirely control that. You can only control your own reaction, and how awkwardly you interact with the people involved. Their interactions with you and with each other are their own responsibility.

The big thing is that you won't have any feelings for him afterwards and that everyone will be cool with it. Im sure that it will feel a little different afterwards, but that's normal. Given that your g/f invited you, I think it will be fun.

Enjoy and tell us how it goes!!!!

Good luck!

;)

...it's been almost a year....what happened....lol

Ok...to update you on that encounter..it never happened. We just decided that we didn't want it to be weird between us. So we just didn't do it.


BUT NOW....

As of May 7 I am going to be in my first girl on girl act. This is a go. We have discussed this and really really really want each other. Her boyfriend is going to be there too and if i am interested then we all will play. I have spoken with both of them and we are all in agreement. This is something they have done before and are good with it. I want to learn all about it and am really ready personally to try this openness. We are hoping that if it all works out then we will be doing this on a regular basis.

We are taking pics and I might post some of them.

Will keep you posted.

But now I need some advise...having that I have not ever eaten another womans "kitty"...what advise can you give me so I wont seem clumsy when I am playing with her.

She has agreed to me the aggressor in this situation and when I feel comfortable I can do her. She knows I have not done this before and that makes her even hotter...her words exactly.

So what can you tell me???

greeneyes,
As a guy who enjoys going down on women, be gentle not rough, start slow and let your passion and her reactions guide you. Use your fingers inside her. Use your tongue both to lick and to push inside her. Enjoy it. Don't focus too much on her clit, it's not a race to see how quick you can make her cum. If you're into it and she enjoys it, play with her ass too. NEVER go from ass back to front with a finger. Once it's in the back it only goes there. Flavored lube may be fun or chocolate syrup, whipped cream. Her reactions will tell you what she likes but don't just do that one thing. Keep changing it up and tease her a bit before going back to what makes her moan the most. Reach up and pinch her nipples and play with her breasts. She may even like licking your fingers while you're playing, again her reaction is key. Basically it's the same rules as making love with anyone. Pay attention to your partner(s) and they will guide you. Don't be a one trick pony and have fun. If something doesn't really work, laugh it off and relax.

Well, that's disappointing.

TGE, the best advice I have heard from women who have tried this is to do what you would like to have done to you. Hope this helps you some. And hoping it is all you wish it to be.

just updating.....

the first date was canceled due to her father in ICU....but we will reschedule....

Ug. Good reason to cancel. Hope things go OK from here on out.

spoke with the him part this morning....it is on for the 21st....woo hoo.

You know the world is scheduled to end on the 21st? Some yankee spent his life savings advertising it in the subway!

Well, we will see what happens....

Well, if both come off as scheduled, it shows excellent planning on someone's part! :D

Any update??

Maybe she's STILL there Aqua!!! :D :whack:

Ok...well here is what happened. On the 20th he texted me and told me he had to work all weekend. So bye bye for that couple. Sorry cancel on me twice and well so long.

OH..yeah...I did have a plan b...Christie...we met and had dinner. talked for hours...3 to be exact then realized how long it had been. well we still talked for another 1.5 hours. then went back to her place. Well we talked another 30 minutes or so and then we kissed. We made out on the couch and then she suggested we go to the bed room...I was all for this.

We get in there and lay down on the bed. make out some more and then my shirt comes off. then my bra and then my pants...didn't wear panties. She stayed dressed.

She then went down and paid attention to my breast and played in the southern region with her hand. then moved her mouth to the southern region. OMG... it was so great. I came at least 3 times. She is good with her mouth.

Anyway she told me that I didn't have to do anything to her since it was my first time with a woman. Which was great since I was a bit nervous about it. I wasn't attracted to her like I thought i would be.

Haven't made plans to get with her again but maybe soon.

Now this weekend.... met another couple and we are meeting this weekend. Me and the female planned it and he is just a bonus. So with the girls in control It will happen...now this one i am really attracted to.

So I am definitely going to eat at the all you can eat buffet at the Y. :p


Did you know that a girl that swings both ways is called a unicorn?

Nope. That's a new one for me.

And me.



I would have just said, "greedy"!! ;)










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Main thing is, to have fun - isn't it? Go for it girl!! :D :D

DM

Well, not quite. A "unicorn" has a more specific meaning...the poly/kink community applies that label to people (usually an established couple) who are looking for that bi-sexual woman, who will form a triad, usually doesn't have a life outside of the triad, practically worship (or in the case of the kink community, serve) each member of the established couple, blah, blah, blah.

The people in question are the ones referred to as "unicorn hunters". Like the creature from legend, the sought-after creatures, the unicorns themselves are mythical.

Well that explains alot on the unicorn thing. I thought it was a bit off but then I am new to alot of this.

Now just to let any one that is wondering about the couple that I met. Well since we have been together twice now and she has taken me under her wing and well showing me soooo much. And the guy (the bonus) is also helping me learn her and different techniques to use and things to try. I really think we are all having a great time with this.


ALL IS GOOD!!!!! :line:

That's all we can ask.

Feel free to provide as much detail as you like, the more the better. Many of us would love to hear all about each encounter and what you've learned!

Couldn't hope for better, then.

WOw! That is fantastic! So happy for you!

So feel free to share experiences with us anytime you like..... I KNOW I'll be awaiting!

^^^ :nod:

I think a line is forming. :)

She can't type with her mouth full!

Oh txgrneyes your teasing and making us wait so long is killing me!!!!!! PLEASE update us..... purty please? :molest:

ok..ok..ok...

Aparently i have neglected all yall so much and I am so sorry for making yall wait. So here is what has been happening. Me and the couple N and P have gotten together about 6 more times since the last post due to our busy lives and have had a great time. A bit of jealousy had happened due to N paying more attention to me due to teaching me how to squirt. Not really great at it at this point but practice makes perfect right?

Any way we called it quits for a while due to that jealousy and the fact that her cervical cancer came back out of remission and surgeries were scheduled. She is doing good but they didn't get it all so it is spreading.

The best thing about this is we have all remained really good friends. Which I couldn't ask for more. Oh and I love eating pussy!!! Who would have thunk it?

Now for the next adventure....

The Third Is Taking The Pics... Want Some?

OHHH BTW ITS MMMF!

Gaining new friends is always a bonus! Hopefully you'll be able to resume soon (and can share more experiences with us!) Oh and pix are always welcomed in my book!!!

Txgrneyes hope you can continue with your adventure. It is nice to hear about someone going after their fantasies. And yes picutres are good.LOL