Not a Porn Star..
 

Hi all at Pixies.Just gotta say...what a great place.I hope it's always around.Anyways..I keep reading that when you're having sex with your man,you become the most beautiful thing to him..In the heat of the moment he doesn't notice your tummy,or the fat on your butt jigglin..lol.Is this really true,for the most part that you don't need to look like a porn star to be 'fuckin hot'.Or is it..the minute they do see stuff jigglin they're going to imagine you are Jill Kelly.Tara Patrick or Jenna what's her face..? :o

Hi Swt_Sxy_Sage. Speaking for myself, I would rather be with a 'real' woman that has curves and a tummy and a jiggly ass than a porn star. I couldn't imagine visualizing a porn star while I was having sex... Lilith maybe... but not a porn star.

Oops... was that out loud??? :o

^^^


What he said...word for word. lmfao

Except the Lilith fantasy part, right WI? :D

Thanks for this thread! I was riding cowgirl the other night & noticed my stupid tummy was jiggling & it made me feel awkward for a moment.

A jiggle here and pooch there.... women, hell people for that matter, are more than the total of their aesthetic flaws. Love is the rose colored looking glass that makes us all porn stars when we make love, Olympic athletes when we play together and Stars when we view pictures of our adored ones in their absence.

This is probably the one saving grace there is to Mrs. WI not allowing me to videotape us making love. Don't get me wrong...I'd love to watch her have an orgasm!


It's me I'm worried about seeing in a whole new light! :yikes:

God... what a sweety you are....

Thanks Lovely Lady, it's just how I see it though... really.


but shhhhhhh, I think it's a secret :wobble:

Did someone insinuate I'm not a porn star??????????????????????????????

OMG noooooooooooooooooooo :yikes:

Have you been on VHS or DVD?

Well then...

Would it be wrong to mention I have?

Show off :spank: :D

Have I mentioned lately you are one of the sexiest women on Earth?

*looks behind her to see who he's talkin' about*

Tee hee! I'm behind you! :sex:

*jiggles belly*


*scampers away*

/me points directly at Lilith

Yeah... you. :x:

/me snubs Aqua, too

I say harumph to you, sir! Harumph!

Whew... I was needing a good snubbing. :D

/me gives Steph a good :spank:

Ooo.....so it is true, is it? I have my doubts about some if it but I'm not doubting the individuals.

Give me a hot passionate kisser anyday and I notice nothing else!

And I'll do my damnedest to light her fire! :d:

*snort* Lmao.....I so had a mental pic of that!

A good friend of mine said 'Good night sexy' to me last night as I hugged him goodbye.....I replied with 'I don't feel very sexy at the moment' and he corrected me saying 'Oh, yes you do' and a squeeze of my behind!

Since he had nothing to gain from saying, and wouldn't have wanted to squeeze my behind if he didn't find it attractive, I took it to be a genuine compliment.

I'm starting to believe men when they say that they want their women to look like women, and not like teenage boys!

The thought of seeing you frightens a lot of us. :eek:



:rofl:

:eek: That was not nice at all!

:spank: that's for you, Mr. PF

and :hug: for you, WI. Unless you want the :spank: too...

it's all in the personality and passion... even I don't notice his little bit of a belly i'm too busy wanting to make him feel good as possible b/c i'm so damned turned on! lol

Oh my... can I do that... please please please!

Ok... having thought about this a little further I realized (and I should have immediately) that porn stars are not limited to video...

Lilith... you are absolutely a Porn Star!

My sincerest apologies. :x:

*end thread hijack*

If you can reach me, you can grope my Aqua, hun. x

Wish i could believe out of my man. But I just dont know anymore. The pics he has on his pc ... them chicks look like they might be 100 pounds soaking wet!! Y'know, the anorexic looking ones? And I tell you they look nothing like me. Before pregnancy,obviously, I weighed in at about 135. and i'm only 5'3". So I have a good chunck of meat on my bones. I am wondering ... should I be worried?

Callie considering most of the pics available are the tinies... I wouldn't worry about them. As long as you're getting the desired attention I'd say he's satisfied. Just offering my thoughts.

No Callie, you shouldn't be worried...he's married to YOU, he makes love to YOU, and my experience with men and porn is that they'll take what they can get....which means, most of the time airbrushed skinny little things with big plastic breasts!

Don't take it as a reflection on yourself...if women of 'normal' proportions showing their naked bits were less taboo (and the reason they are taboo is, in my opinion, because the sexier something is, the more 'obscene' it is) then I believe most men would choose to look at the naked bits of a woman who had some meat on her bones.

Wouldn't you agree boys?

Absolutely Lou!

cool thanks. I just worry sometimes... especially lately. Though i know it is cause I am pregnant that it is actually bothering me. I have clinical depression and this is "where"(meaning sexual things) it "hits" me worst. No idea why.

I am not a supermodel or porn star....and I have my quota of jiggly bits....but I've never been tossed out of bed. ;) Confidence has a lot to do with it -- if you believe you are beautuful you most likely are.

And pregnant women have extra reasons to be beautiful!!!! So smile, and be sexy.

((((callie))))

Well thanks osuche. (((osuche))) right back at ya. i can try the "sexy thing." But it is hard to when i am over eight months pregnant! LOL

Callie that's the point. No trying is necessary. You are your most womanly right now, today. You are ripe.;) Doing that which only women can do. It's the epitome of being feminine and sexy.

If your guy is like me, he sees you as the most beautiful creature on earth right now. You're carrying the future inside you. That little cherub will be a shining light in both your lives. Love personified. The glow of motherhood may be hard for you to see as sexy but it is.

(((((((Callie))))))) Congrats on the baby! :line:

I think jealousy is normal & what's awesome is that you're questioning it. You realize it's an ugly emotion but you are justified in feeling the way you are. Our media consists of AIRBRUSHED images. I sometimes look at "Cosmo" & feel obese but what is it the t-shirt says? "Only eight women in the world have supermodel bodies"?

It bugged me that the last guy I lived with had porn consisting mostly of file names with the word 'teen' in them. :rolleyes2 I was jealous and, most of the time, I would think about it and become rational, however I knew my hackles rose mainly because I was 29 & he was 24. It parallels your feelings as a "growing mama" :D with his "choice" in porn.

And, to agree with BigBear57 for the 64,000th time this year, most of the porn available is for "Barely Legal!111!!!!" ;) & for some reason, society's porn providers (and the profit margin, one must assume) have provided us with very skinny women for us to fantasize about at all times.

I sometimes look at Pam Anderson and marvel at her tiny hips. She's genetically blessed but somehow decided that her body would be enhanced by doubling her weight by adding PDFs on her upper torso. She has admitted that it was a retarded thing to do but would she have the money she has now if it weren't for those breasts?

*sigh*

I love Pixies people because they know the world is nicely viewed with red-coloured glasses but realize reality is also a pretty cool option.

Lixy, do you have any oxygen left?

:rant:

I'm just gonna ditto what the smart lady ^^^ said.

Turn the thing around in your head....we girls, for the most part, aint living with holidwood heartthrobs. But we find our guys unspeakably sexy all the same. What we choose for our day to day lives means more than what we might want as a pinnup.

And I know for a fact that my guy, at least, would rather have pictures of me in those outfits and poses...for all that I'm a normal, curvey, droopy, tan line showing female ;). He's not choosing those porn star posers by preference, he's stuck with them as second best ;).

G

oomg....Ginger....I love what you said there...about man looking at porn stars, as second best....good one...!!