Masturbation: to do it or not to do it
 

The universal question. I say that because everyone has a view on it.

Some say that it is bad for you, so pleasing ones self is bad?

Other's say that it will make you go blind so does that mean that all blind people are wankers?


Please share your views on the connundrum of connundrums

Well I have been doing it sense I was about 12 and I don't feel bad at all but often oh soooooooo good. I do wear glasses to see far away but my eyesight is still very much intact.;)

So I say do it and do it often. Do it alone and do it with your partner. Besides it is a very good thing for one to really understand what feels good. :thumb:

Tess get on the bed now!!!! I need to please myself and I think you do too. Right baby????? :lurv:

There's two kind of liars when it comes to masturbation: Those who say they never have and those who say they have and quit! As for me - I do it as often as needed, but much better to have a lady do it for me! :devilish:

I didn't start masturbating until I was in my 40's... what a dope! Once I did start, I found out that I'm extremely multi-orgasmic :jump:

Oh yeah, I enjoy masturbating. I particularly enjoy it while in his presence.

:confused: Tell me why I'd want to stop??? :D

You might go blind :faint:

who said it's bad? tell 'em ta come on over , i'll set 'em straight ;)

Huh. Thought the "masturbation is bad" argument went by the wayside years ago. :rolleyes2

Wanker is aussie for someone who masturbates. We also use tosser. Now I think in other countries they use different words but it means the same thing.

How could masturbation possibly be bad? You get orgasms without risk of pregnancy, STD's or that awkward time period right after he cums in you and you start wondering if it'd be rude to ask for a ride home :p just kidding

I've been masturbating since I was 10 or so and I've no intentions of stopping now.

i masturbate to relieve the tension otherwise i'd be one horny bastard all day long.


and its the only action i get

Me too MM :p especially that last part :( lol

I have had to do it for sexual relief so much during the years because she wasn't in the mood or whatever that I ONLY do it when I really need to, not much of a turn on anymore, most times a turn off.

Just to clear something up... ^ that was with his ex.. not me!

You're not serious right
 

As a general rule I don't trust people who don't admit to masturbation. Either they're lying in which case, I don't want them too close to me, or they're completely unself-aware, which may be actually more dangerous. But cobalt adds a new wrinkle to my thoughts, but only because I know what it is to be with the frigid bitch, when your hand is the only one who knows your pain :boink:

I hope Pixies is printed in braille. :cool:

Just follow the *bumps* PF..... :devilish:

John Grey (the Mars/Venus dude) once said in an interview for Playboy that he believes masturbating takes intimacy from a relationship but how am I supposed to believe a guy that was celibate for 13 years before he got married and turned into a sex expert? ha ha

Well sounds to me like he was a closet masturbator.............Then he realised how good it felt.

I am on my way out the door to buy some braille panties... :moon:

mmmmmmmmmm ...
 

i'll read for you or watch you "read" while i read all day :drool: :blink: :sperm:

When I was in school.. thank god for these religious right fanatics we had while growing up... I was made to feel so ashamed of it. Took a while to come to terms with the fact that this, indeed is not a bad thing.

First and foremost argument, if you need to spooge, it's better to relieve yourself than go do something that'll wind you up in jail along with the clergy from my aforementioned school... lol!

What gets left out of the arguement sometimes, though, is that masturbating is a learning, exploratory process. Sun Tzu said 'know thyself' and I'm certain any man claiming to be such an expert on war liked to jerk off over his chessboard.

See, knowing yourself means knowing what arouses you, what brings you to the edge, what you like and don't like. Plus you can build up your own stamina. For guys, the most important issue is building up your stamina because, face it, when you're a young wanker you'll spurt all over your boxers at the sight of boobies. For gals, it's all about learning what areas of your complex and often confounding pussy are the 'hotspots'. Then you can direct your guy when he's going down there, instead of being one of those cold bitches who lay with a bored look and give 'the tap' when you're ready to give up on him.

Again.....well said Jay. I concur with some of what you had to say. If a girl doesn't give some directions and just lays there, then there is something that isn't quite up to scratch. I mean we don't want to be the worst experience for them, and unless they give a few pointer's along the way, how can we be sure that they like it?