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i got to thinking, where is the proper placement of a guys hands while he is getting head?..should he place them on top of the girls head, kinda guide her along? or is off to the side? back behind our head relaxing?..any thoughts or suggestions?

Great question! You could pull my pig tails like reins:p

woohooo... my personal favorite sexual pleasure...

a wonderful question... one that I haven't seen posted (I don't think) :) (and sometimes it is hard coming up with those original questions).

It all depends on the position...

My personal favorite is having his hands in my hair... giving him the misconception that he has some control in the situation... :)

Besides that, if the position allows my wet pussy close enough to touch... then damn it.. do so!!!! LOL

a sweet gesture of his hands gently moving across my face... keepin my hair from falling and obstructing the view.........

*sigh*....

Damn.. I REALLY need to give a blowjob....

i will volunterr for that pleasure jenna, and thank yall for saying this is a great question, im still fairly new, so i wasnt sure if this had been talked about or not, i hope it sparks some intrest

I've know women that would cause bodily harm if you put your hands on the back of their head, and other's that would insist on it. I think it's like most things... it depends on the woman. I am curious to see how the Pixies ladies like it though. (Good info if the fabled Grand Convention of Worldwide Pixies ever takes place. :p )

I am with Jenna on the hair....sometimes I can appreciate some gentle guidance and sometimes I just want him to help hold it out of his view while I work my magic;)

I thought you were supposed to lace your hands behind your head and chant "blow bitch blow"....

Only if you want to get bit. ROFLMAO @ STO

ROTFLMAO @ skip :p

Good thing I dig pain

Becareful what you wish for Skip... ;)

I was watching a porn a few weeks ago and the guy kept chanting "bite it girl, bite it" the whole time she was sucking him...

a little nibble isn't bad :) hmmmmmmmmm.... yummy

who put the bop in the bob-shoo-wop

I also like to have my lover hold my hair out of my face so that he can see what is happening, and I don't mind if he places his hands gently on my head. But if he tries to determine on his own how deep he's going to go down my throat by face fucking me, at the very least I will be ticked off and will stop and at the extreme will bite. Otherwise, where he wants to place his hands, whether on his body or mine, is fine with me.

Mmmm! I hate the hand on the back of the head. Loves to get in to position so he can feel my wetness, Oh and keep hair out of my face, with his other hand,

I'm a move the hair so I can see and occasionally make eye contact. Oh and I definitely wanna feel the moisture bubbling when I can. I've been known to hold hands too... I hate to shorten the experience with hand jobs. LOL

Isn't that what a lady's ears are for? Have I been doing it wrong all these years?

LMAO @ Eric!

Nice one mate! :)

CasperTG

Wife has very long hair, which I pull back out of her face, & when I pull it all the way back into a ponytail...well, it gives me a sort of handle to guide her with...but if I apply too much pressure, I will get the message to back off very quickly...

I can't expect him to hold my hair back if we are 69.........but then who needs to see anyway in that position?

I do have a problem of obstruction of view when I am between his thighs and kneeling high......so I hold my hair back or he does.......and every now and then he grips the back of my head and pulls me closer.....which I don't mind as long as he doesn't thrust too hard into my mouth, simultaneously!

And, you might have been kidding.........but I kinda like him to lay back with hands clasped behind his head and watch me lick from tip to balls and back.........again and again!

okay...will admit to a certain fondness of how should i say...ah yes...blowjobs...but that raises another question...I have a phobia of the mouthful and have never actually allowed it to happen so any advice on how to deal with the "first time" would be much appreciated.

Cabrylla... This would be a great thread all on its own... post one :) Oh. wait.. I will post one for you :)

This was a good question and good feedback. I tend to like to lay back and kind of watch, but it seems so natural to use my hands to push her hair back or to gently guide. But it was good to hear from you ladies. I think sometimes my wife is inclined to "go along with me" and not necessarily tell me her feelings. In a way that's nice of her, but I'd really like to know what pleases her.

Since Pixies, I've gained a lot of insight from you laides sharing your thoughts on things. Thanks. I think it helps me be a better lover for her.

Touch her face, gentle caress across the cheek, then thread the fingers through the hair above the ear with slight pressure, while holding that dreamy eye contact. All that with the grunts and moans will tell her she's doing you good, which is what she wants, right?

That help you out?