Amazingly I watched a movie about this very topic a bit ago....

It was called Grownups

Starring : John Stamos,Daniel Landon, Meredith Salanger, Tara Westwood.

Here is the details:

Steve (John Stamos) and Eric are average guys living average lives with their average wives in their home town of Freehold, New Jersey. Now, in their early 30s, they fear settling into the routine of life in the suburbs. Both they and their wives Ami and Claire are dealing with the reality that they are no longer watching MTV, but instead find themselves flipping channels to VH1. They have become grownups. Or at least they are supposed to be. But all four are having trouble with this concept and yearn for something, anything, that will break them from utter ennui. When Eric jokes about about free love and wife swapping, his friends are only too eager to give it a try....

It came out in 2001 and I found it at Blockbuster...

Maybe watching this might help.


But on a personal note if my husband would have mentioned this to me when we were married I would have been too worried that he was testing me and would fear the wrath of him and his bruised ego.

Just doesn't sound right. Drugging and tricking your best friend and lover seems like the wrong thing to do for me. I would have to discuss it first and honestly explore our feelings and see if I could kindle her interest. Be sure you want this before you move ahead. There just might be unintended consequences that leave you with regret. Best of luck!

Just say to the woman, "I just read Fred's Xmas list and you were #3" or words to the effect.

She'll either become curious or remind you that Death Valley'll freeze over first.

Still easier than "Hide the Carving knife".