man o man.......... :hot: :hot: :hot:

Certainly if you would like to experience having multiples, everybody's suggestions would be worth a try. But don't think there is anything wrong with you if your body is usually happy with one fantastic one. Many women fall into that category, and it's just as normal as the multiples are for others. Just like some women ejaculate and some don't; both are perfectly fine.

Thank you again!

I have always hated marathon sex sessions, frankly. A series over the course of the day is better, and I have multiple orgasms per day, only during actual sexual activity can I have multiples, and I have them in a series (I call them aftershocks ;) ), and then I'm done. If the guy has to keep going much past that, I get to a point where I'm bored and just trying to get him off so I can quit. That's a really yucky feeling.

I don't understand the attraction, frankly. Had an ex that just wanted to do oral on me for... hours. I no longer have any desire for oral at all. Seriously, each person is different. If you are satisfied, why do you need something that makes other people happy? Where's the guarantee it will make you happy?

Some women want to fuck for hours. I find that boring, irritating, and unsatisfying. Some women need to orgasm multiple times. Some are perfectly satisfied with once. Who are you worried about performing for? You are certainly not going to orgasm multiple times if you are expected to, that's not him caring about your needs, that's him expecting you to validate him as a man with your body- like it or not.

Sex is a natural, fun thing. Lose your expectations and prohibitions regarding it. Allow your body to guide you, it is the organ of your sexual pleasure, the guage by which to test it. Follow its guidance. Let it tell you when it is content and finished. Pushing it past that becomes performance, which involves expectation, which closes your mind and creates resentment. Over time, that resentment will remove the pleasure.

You are happy, you feel satiated and content, why fool with that??

WOW thank you!

This isn't very clear, I'm sorry. What I mean to say is, I prefer to have several sexual encounters with my partner, thoughout the day. I may orgasm each time, but not usually multiples during that sexual encounter. When I do have multiples, it is usually as a series that go like "aftershocks" and then I am done... I don't have sex, orgasm, have more sex, orgasm again, have more sex, orgasm again.

Each person is unique, only your body can tell you when YOU are pleased and satiated. Listen to your body, love it, appreciate it. Honor the message it is sending to you, by listening to it.

BUMP!!!

so how are you ladies doing on the multiple orgasm front these days?

Oh I'm getting much better at it...trust me!! lol

practice makes perfect?

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DM

Well unfortunately the only practice I'm getting is with myself :(

You say that like it's a bad thing...

JK, just think of how proficient you'll be when you have a real live one to play with LOL

with me when I do it myself I can usually cum about 30mins after my first orgasm

whe I am with my partner, it is about every 10-15 mins

I can come 2 or 3 times per session, but I don't always need to. I read a book on the Tao of sex, and it suggested that you need a 30-second or so break of only very mild stimulation once you come off the high before you start climbing again. I've found that to be accurate for me, so I just kind of rest, moving very slowly (like if I'm astride) so that I don't shift gears into "done" mode, and then it goes from there. If I try to power through, with a partner or on my own, I can rub for an hour and get nowhere, rubbing myself raw in the process--the break is key.

I have to say, as much as I've appreciated the generosity of my lovers in trying to get me to 2 or 3 or more, sometimes it's a burden. Sex is not a competitive sport. There's a fine line between generosity, which is lovely, and ego, which is less so. I think men sometimes get into the mindset that they're superstuds if they can get you to come more than once a session, and it becomes about them instead of you. And that's where female performance anxiety comes in--if he's invested in a specific out-come, pun intended, of sex, then you feel like he'll be disappointed if you don't. Sometimes, though, I just want to get off the horse after one. If I didn't think you were a superstud to begin with, we wouldn't be naked together, you know? The fact that we're having sex at all means you won. :)

Just because women are known to be multiorgasmic doesn't mean they have to be, or that it's a standard they must try to attain. SweetLady's right.

My wife and I literally collapse after the one monster orgasm--the build up is just so intense that we usually have to take a break after for a while.

Several in a day, just the one per session :cboy: