1.) Lurking- about 5 times

2.) Posting- couple of months (but i was in the process of building a house and moving in :o)

3.) Picture Posting- as soon as i find which damn box my cam is in i will be posting pics

4.) Newbies – today actually, 69 posts...had to giggle...then felt comfy.

5.) Regulars- am i a regular yet?

6.) Active- once you post you are active i spose...the more i post the more i want too....almost addictive :0)

Freedom of speech includes silence.

Good group of questions and answers here.
Most seem to deal with some sort of self imposed ethics.
I feel this way. That you should start out with some rules to the site.
If you like the rules and the game... join in.
Play by the rules.
Play nice.
Spectate until you are comfortable.
But I feel that you should contribute something.
Bring a little something to the table if you’re going to sit among the players.
Spectating from the cheap seats isn’t so bad but sitting in the luxury box for free?
I don’t go for that. Hell either your playing or paying

1.) I think I must have lurked, reading the stories first then the forums for at least a few days before I registered.

2.) I think I posted within a day or so of registering. And Murphy was the first person to respond to my very first post. :heart:


3.) A clothed picture, about 5 months after first posting. A 'nakie', well, I posted my very first ones for my first anniversary of registering.

4.) I must have read a lot of the posts before I registered because I distinctly recall feeling very familiar with some of the 'regulars' when I posted the first time, and that was within a day or two after registering.

5.) Not any certain number of posts. A person can post a lot in a day or two and then disappear. It's more a length of time..........maybe a couple of weeks or a month. And I like to see them post to the threads as well as posting pics.

6.) Maybe at least every few days.....once a week maybe.

Lurking Lilith........Now theres an oxymoron .

I think lurkers add a touch of sexual excitement.
You can see by the diffirece in the number of times your pics are viewed and the number of posted comments how many there are
but to boot them I dont think so.

Is there any way you could give us a hint about the site you're talking about, Lilith? As you know, I work for a company that specializes in 'telepersonals' through phone and dating. You can stay inactive on the Web site as long as you like without getting booted but if you don't check your voice mailbox in three weeks, it gets deleted. Maybe the Web site you checked out has limited space?

It may have to do with space but I seriously doubt it. It is a site much like this but very different too. I joined it to check it out cause the owner was on here and kept dropping the url in his posts.

I think it is interesting though that it does take me longer to "warm up" to different sites. I am sure I would have posted there eventually but I was still needing to check it out more. I have been a member of Lit almost as long as here yet, I only have like 7 posts there. Something about this place...............:p

Lilith were else could you find helpless victims for Lilith's Lair:D

Scarecrow I just had your name custom painted by your fave shackles:p

I dunno . . . I love this place but I've just started posting on Lit, too. It's cool there, too. What don't people like about Lit?

1. I was lured here by the stories also. It was before you had to
register, but it was soon after I found the place.

2.I haven't checked the stats, but not a long time.

3.The bastards at NASA still won't re-configure Hubble to get a
picture around my gut and the NSA can neither confirm nor deny
they have succeeded in doing so.

4. It snuck up on me, but the regular posters welcomed me and I
was at home before I knew it.

5. Some take weeks, others days. Depends on the personalities.
If they just live in the games room, months.

6. Active is now, I don't remember recognising a threshhold.

Lilith.

Perhaps the site has limited memory and processing resources
available and needs to be a little ruthless in it's definition of
"active". Does not augur well for their survival.

Gosh I'm gon'a blush ;)