No, actually I would do whatever my girlfriend wanted in the bedroom, even if I wasn't enamored with the notion. Am I weak for saying this?, I don’t think so. When I was dating, lo those many years ago when I was just a little spud, I thought that if I really cared and trusted someone enough to maintain a sexual relationship with them then I was committed to making that relationship work. That means give and take. What impressed me in your previous postings that your B/F was pretty good at the take part and not so good at the giving part. It was from what you told us of his past actions that I based, hopefully falsely, my character assination of your B/F.
In the scheme of things you are young and I assume that your B/F is young also. At an early age Women seem to grab a handle on how to maintain a relationship better than men do. In general guys do some stupid stuff. That dosen’t make them necessarily bad guys. They just make stupid choices. (Just look at the car Insurance tables if you need proof of that) It would be foolish to assume that at this point in your lives you two have the same level of emotional maturity. I hope that I am wrong, For your sake I hope that this guy in “Mr. Perfect” or at least “Mr. Perfectly fine the way he is thank you very much”

My comments were rash and I am sorry for that. In no way did I mean to impune your integrity. I just think, once again based on only the information I have read, that this guy may not be the best match for you. You are an exceptionally beautiful woman and you seem sensitive and sincere. You deserve happiness. Don’t settle.

Well, I don't get it. Eating out a woman has got to be one of the most pleasurable experiences to have. I love it when I feel her legs tighten, her breathing faster...

Maybe you could try flavouring?

Well as long as you are satisfied with what he gives you then...well, I guess there are no problems. I won't comment on a lot of this thread but I will say this, I find it strange that there is no reciprocation...what one does, one should recieve, and vice versa, but hey that is just me. I like to give back what my lover gives to me, not only to show my appreciation and or love, but also my desire to please her.

Hi Smiles Beautiful

It looks like I'm coming in late to this discussion. My spin on this would be that you are both young and as long as you have open minds it is not too late to learn. Nobody is an immediate expert but it is great fun gaining experience. The main thing is for it not to become an issue between you. Encourage him with mutual kissing and licking over your bodies but avoiding the genitals. Then slowly move closer and deeper. Have fun experimenting ;)

Well here is the deal as of a few days ago and today. I found out the real deal by being annoyingly persistant...I'm sure guys know how women can be... Anyway, he flat out told me he didnt like it. Now I feel bad cause I kept asking him to this whole time!! He also said he's not going to ask me to go down on him anymore. But I like doing it! What about that??? Another thing...this should make all the men at Pixies so happy. I'm single now! And no, I didn't dump him. I wouldn't do that in a million years. So I guess I don't need anymore tips...right?

SB............I'm no expert on eating pussy,but

when I go down on my Lady.........I use my fingers as well as my tongue...........and when I go near her clit.........she begs me to stay there................and if I think about moving away form it,she slaps the piss outta me.

I'm not sure it this will help,but I hope it does

*L* Don't slap your B/F(unless your into that) ;) but,personally ,I think the clit thing and the fingers works.

good luck.............I hope things work out for you



sorry, I missed your last post....................forget I said anything..*L*

SB... I've read a lot of your post, and looked at ALL of your pics (my favs). I'm sorry to hear that you're single. I know you'll find another guy (or he'll find you) that can fulfill you emotionally and phyisically. Hope you aren't too sad about the turn of events.

He is sounding more and more like a "keeper"!
You know maybe I was too rash in my prior comments.
He does have a sense of equality...Now it is no oral for either of you. That is a fairly democratic decision now isn't it? I my opinion Equality sucks!, except in this case.