[QUOTE=BIBI][QUOTE=Catch22]She has Working on the list BiBi

Does that mean we get a picnic basket for being booboo? :p

:) @ ^^^^^^^

Thanks for the great responses...

Lou.. making a "wish list" about yourself... characteristics that I need to further develop within myself is a fantastic idea... and I will begin working on such a list.. I think it will work well within this weeks assignment actually.. so I thank you..

BIBI... ROFL.. believe me.. employed is a "non-negotiable". I have never found myself remotely attracted to anyone who is unable (unwilling) to work. I grew up in a home where a work ethic was pounded in early.

osuche.. I read your post.. and could completely relate.. I have several very close male friends.. that I would certainly date.. but alas.. I am the only single one in my crowd.. :(

Lilith.. that is almost exactly what I was told.. as to why the assignment was given to me... did you copy that out of a text book? LOL.. I am NOT a text book case... LOLOLOL.. far from it.

Catch22.. this is part of an ongoing project... ME... I have begun trying to deal with my issues with a professional.. in an attempt to rid myself of excess (unattractive) baggage.. this is just the beginning.. of a long road.

Jaybee.. Thunder thighs.. don't my kind of thing.. LOL.. but I am thankful they are yours :)

Hugs.. and sooo much thanks..

When I was young I made a list -- it would have been impossible for anyone to meet all the criteria, because somethings absolutely cancelled each other out (that was when I was very young!)

When I was in my late 20's I made another list, not really written down, but still it was a list I made and have carried it in my head ever since .... but having never written it down, I found it very difficult to sit down and do so .... strange how our minds work isn't it ....

Strong - emotionally, spiritually, mentally, personally ... and physically wouldn't be bad either.

Caring - about me, about my inner circle, about things that really matter (in my opinion)

Integrity (I think this really goes with the Strong, but it's very important to me)

That certain spark that kind of just sets my teeth (and various other parts) (and his as well) all atingle.

Beyond that, for me, just about everything else is negotiable. :)

LILITH..........you just told my life story.
Maybe I'll get it right this time. ;)

You're Lilith's mom? :jester: :eek: :fish:

I kid! It seems like you've got a great guy now, my dear.