help yourself i would have no problems

Hmmmmmm...if the feeling strikes you, just go for it. Even if his state hasn't been caused by you, I'm sure you can gather some evidence of his passion for you if you persevere. Ladies, don't be shy... at least not on my account.

Lilith- Hilarious story- sounds like the way some of my bright ideas have turned out :) Laughter first, THEN sex!

This is one that I managed to pull off without a hitch and he loved it-- I would advise trying it... But perhaps wearing protective headgear :)