i was 16 and i told my parents i was going to the library so i couls sneak over to this chicks house--i think i lasted all of 5 seconds

Hmmm.... wait... it ran out the door!! ope, nope. my bad. It's still there!

22 while housesitting for my mom. Picked up a roomates cousin who lived near my moms house. After watching a movie I gave her a back massage. She then rolled over and stuck my hand down her pants and I went with the flow from there : )

Mine is carefully locked away. The keys will only be given to that who deserves it.

I agree with that.

I was young really really young and it wasn't by my choice.

I'm 19 and actually still a virgin. It's kind of become a burden at this point in my life, I don't want to lose it to just anybody but I'm tired of waiting around for the right guy.

Sometimes you have to go through a few wrong guys to find the right guy. ;)

Perhaps, instead of looking for Mr Perfect...

how about mr Not bad..

At this point I'd even settle for "Mr. Right Now"...I haven't had a serious relationship since high school, it was way too serious for way too long, I'm enjoying the single life at the moment, it's hard not to while in college. I'm just looking for a decent relationship, I'm not necessarily waiting for love, just someone that I want to share my first time with.

Manda2119 I can't believe the guys are not knocking your door down waiting to get to you...but just wanted you to know..if is ok to be a virgin and wait, hon :-)

20, my room at college. Two years later I married her.

a few months after i started dating my (current) bf....in his room, on his bed...it was very sweet 2 1/2 yrs later i'm still with him! :)

At my then g/f's parents house on the living room floor while her parents were at church.

It was my 20th birthday and my g/f at the time(she was 16 or 17...I'm thinking 17) thought it would be interesting to see if my penis fit into her.....so we tried.....it wasn't that great but I lost my virginity so I was happy......then about 12 hours later at night we did it again and it was 10X's better.......and then it got better every single time.....we dated for two years(we waited around 6 months) and I miss her alot....but were still friends now....best birthday present I ever got and most likely will ever get.

I know exactly how you feel,

I'm tired of waiting around for the right girl

I've pretty much given up

I lost my viginity by having sex - is there another way to lose it that I'm not aware of?

I lost it to a girl, same age (16) in her bedroom while her parents were out. She planned the whole thing - cheeky girl!!

Mercury_Maniac i'm in the same boat as you 19 and not even a chance to get down and dirty with someone but i guess thats life....

I'm 19 and male virgin. I don't feel any pressure to lose it. I'll keep holding it till I find a woman who I know will be there in my future.

You know I was just looking at the question and thought the same as you. I had posted before, but I lost mine by a penis entering my vagina. (wasn't a good eperience either) :(

Picked up a hitchhiker and we fucked all night. She later became my ex-wife. But she was very good at some things :)

I know.. i feel the same way.. people are like why?? to them it doesnt make sense..
but if then do u wanna regret not waiting. i have been close to just saying forget it.. i just wanna have sex. i know how frusterating it is..
i dont know what my point is but i just want u to know that ur not the only person in that situation and feeling the same way

14.....in the basement/laundry room of my first love's parents house! It was over before it started I think! It sucked.....but we got better in time. Now that I'm thinking about it...I wonder if he was a virgin then too! I never asked him that. I guess I just assumed with his looks and charisma he'd been around a bit! Hmmmmm! I still remember his phone #.....I might just call him and ask!

Sometimes the first time can be so traumatic that it is a wonder why more people don't swear off of sex for the rest of their life. I have heard stories first hand of the young girls who lost their virginity as a noch in the belt of a jock who is only thinking of the conquest.As for me,I never thought any girl would have me.I was very shy and didn't kow how to talk to any girl my age,let a lone breech the subject of having sex.Finally in my second year of high school I met a girl who was pretty much in the same boat as I was.She was cute,15 years old,(I was 17)a little plump and didn't think she would ever fnd a guy. The pressure was on to find out what having sex was all about.We got together over at her grandmother's house and started to fool around in the back yard after a couple of glasses of wine.It wa slow and agonizing.First we would just make out.I remember the first day,I took her hand and tried to put down my pants.She pulled back and I didn't try it again for a while.Soon after I came in my jeans but didn't let her know bout it.Within the next couple of days we found ourselves back at her place and after a glass or two of wine,found ourselves on her bed with the t.v.on.After kissing for what seemed like hours,I got up enough nerve to slide my hand up her tee shirt.Turning her over so she would be on top of me I unfassened her brassiere and helped her slip out of her shirt.She had lovely small breasts for the first ones I had seen up close and I began to play with them until she wanted to squirm out of her pants.Finally both naked,I slid in a little to fast and came almost right away.We both laid there and enjoyed he moment and then got up and got dressed before anyone came home.For some odd reason,we never got together again and it was about another 6 to 8 months before I had sex again.This time,it was at a party with a girl I had met and began to see for a while.

i was 14 at the time, told my parents i was going to a friends house, but of course went to his. we had been going out for awhile and messed around a bit, giving each other oral. his parents were out of town and we knew knowone would walk in on us. so we decided to go for it. we stayed together for about another year or so. at times i wish i had waited but we're still friends and that was 14yrs ago.

My first time with a woman and a man were about a month apart, the summer I was 19...

My first woman was my best friend from HS. She and I had always had a sort of tension between us. After I came out, her husband begged us to do it. I was a virgin, and he watched as I lost my "girl" virginity. The feel of her tongue is something I'll never forget.

As for my 'boy' virginity, it was a month later. I was trashed and a fellow and I were half blacked out in my apartment living room. We fooled around and he took my virginity in my bed that night. Sadly enough he came right before i did...and I never did get off! :( But I was hooked and wanted sex ever since....found out a week later a friend of mine took his virginity no more than a week before he took mine.

Junior year in high school. Very heavy chemistry between us. It was wonderful. My mother found out and the screaming started. He'd used a condom and it didn't flush all the way. Got the whole thing from her.."How dare you, etc..." I left the house and walked all the way to his house. She tore my bed apart and looked for my diary. She read it. When I got home, she was absolutely livid. I don't write my feelings down, anymore, and it soured me on the whole sex thing for a great many years.

I FINALLY joined the non-virgin ranks when I was 17 along with my mother's boyfriends daughter (Who was also a virgin until that night). Thankfully I have never looked back. :D

Well, I'm 18 and still waiting. Right now I'm just enjoying life and when the time is right, it will happen.

19 and waiting, and trying to enjoy life

19, in my car outside my "new" girlfriends house... whilst her parents were inside.....I did'nt wash my bits for a whiule savouring the aroma, didn't have to wait long for the follow up though...