*GULP*
 

Well I say talk to him, I mean it has to be better than how I learned "All I needed to know about sex but was afraid to ask". I was at a friends house and he had hidden away (like most kids would adult magazines) instructional sex books and pamplets. No wonder I am emotionally scarred. Anyway its your call, my Mom was a nurse so you might think I would have heard the old tab A in Slot B instructional seminar, but I learned on my own. Don't make him do that. If you answer his questions, maybe he won't go try and find out on his own.

Lilith---Let me give you things from a male perspective.Mothers want to think that their children are innocent.Actually;the last person that boys want to talk to them about sex is their mothers!
Granted;my mother was very religious(strict Catholic).I felt at ease;talking to my father;but not my mother;who thought that sex was only for procreation.When my mother;had the"Birds&
Bees"talk with me;I had already had sex!You are never ready to
have sex;before marriage;to your mother.I actually;used to say a
prayer;before sexual contact but that wasn't going to stop me!
Irish
P.S.I know;things are different now;but thats from a males point
of view.I'm still my mothers little boy and my daughters are in their 30s now!

rather than trying to do the impossible (block his access to X sites) [trust me, he'll get smart enought to avoid detection and curious enough to ignore your NO's], i'd boomark some GOOD and INFORMATIVE sites (like sexuality.org) , so he'll be informed, and not think that 'girls & horses' [one of the 10000s of popups today] are a natural thing ...

Thanks everyone all very valid ideas.

HEY THERE LILITH,

I also have and 11 yr. old son, and a 7 yr. old son.
We had the "talk" while driving upstate. He asked the questions
dreaded by all moms......"Where do babies come from ? " and
"How do the babies get into the mommy's stomach?"

I said "The mommy and daddy have sex !!!" and tried to explain
what that was so as to satisify an 11 and a 7 yr. old curiosity. The 11 yr. old looked a little confused by the whole thing and little one said, and I quote EWWWWUUUUU!!!!!! Yuck !!!!!!!!!
"That's gross!!!!"

So, now should I be worried ??????

Anyway, since then and now a yr. older the 11 yr. old understands the definition and purpose of sex and the little one
still thinks it's "gross".

I wanted them to know the real deal from me, before they got
any information from their friends on the subject.

My advice.......Just talk to him!!!!

I know, I know, I coulda' said that in the first place, but there it is !!!

PW~ When I tried to explain it all to him when he was younger I had the talk explaining eggs and sperms and intercourse.....when all finished I said"any questions?"

and he says, "these eggs do they look like a chicken's eggs???????":o:o:p

how come all the submisive and/or bdsm-ish mothers don't want their children to have the same fun they do ???

and... something that happened to a long-time-ago girlfriend : she made a ... video of herself :) [just herself] (if we count out the dildos and beads and half the toy-store *grin*) , tape found by her mother, who watched it entirely (2 hours) WITH her [made her stay there , so she (the mother) wouldn't have to yell for the daughter if she would want to say anything.

I swear i have never seen a person that red in my life [i happened to 'bump' in in the middle of it].
Now i was extremly arroused by the whole thing, however, thinking it over, i don't think i would be able to do it (watch the tape) if my son/daughter [when i'll have any of them :P] would do it... but ... WOW!

++ for the ladies that keep their photos in the computer/house/videos... how would the kid react to se his sweet mummy 'in action' ??

....sorry to get off track... memories are soooo nice sometimes...

To all parents here.I know that this doesn't have anything to do
with this thread&I know that kids can be annoying;when they're
young&you want to spend personal time with your S/O.Speaking
from experience;spend as much time as you can;with your
children;while they're young!All of a sudden;they're grown&out of
the house&in my case;have kids of their own!I know;I have four
grandkids now and you are just as protective(maybe;even more)
of them as you were with your own! Irish

Curious
 

wonder if the little feller has developed a keen interest in computer science lately?;)