You 2 are cuties!

Thank you Lilith! He is in the middle east right now so I miss him alot!

IggysGirl

Your SO is in the middle of 450,000 other SO's whose main

thing is to look after each other.

He's safe there than home.

It made my day to read everyone's posts so far. My smile is a little bigger and my step a little lighter. As a white woman married to a black man for many yrs, being the mother of 2 beautiful biracial kids, and presently being engaged to a man who just happens to be black/Puerto Rican, I have never seen what the big deal is. To me it's no different than noticing a white couple in which one person may have black hair and the other blonde. After all these years, the whole notion of interracial sex and relationships being sensational (not to mention "kinky"?!) gets to be a little old.

I totally agree with Old Fart: "Sex just because someone is a particular race is kinky. Sex with someone who happens to be from a different race is not."

IggysGirl, I have a son there, too, so I can empathize with you completely. Hopefully Old Fart is correct; they will look after each other.

I have tried and tried and tried to understand the interacial thrill thing. I was watching some porn last night (hehehe just for a change! Lol) and there were two black guys and a blonde.....I just can't see any kind of thrill about it myself. I've been attracted to a lot of black men in my time, but never becuase they are black....and not because of their reputation for being well endowed, but just because the facial features and physique of a lot of Afro/Carribean men really appeals to me. My best friend at school was one of only two black girls in my year though so a long time ago I really did stop seeing colour.

Having said that I could kind of see the appeal of a seeing whole load of white cum all over the smooth dark skin of a black woman but then cum is white no matter who it comes from so that isn't necessarily an interracial thing either! Probably just my obsession with cum showers! Lol

Ok, I'm gonna weigh in. If you think it's kinky and you enjoy that, what is the harm folks? If you find it to be commonplace, that's Ok too, right?

I dated an African American lady who would only date white guys. I didn't see the harm and didn't consider her to be biased, just preferential. It goes many different ways and most are just fine.

Live and let live.