I have talked to her more about this and shown her these replies. She still says that is how she got sore. She has dropped the three hour thing though and now says, "it seemed like a long time" and "long enough to get that sore".
She still says he tried twice and never did enter her because she was that dry. She also maintains that she never felt any pain and never felt him trying to enter her. That all it felt like was someone pushing on her. She now says that she was drunk and that is why she felt nothing.
Possible I guess. I would guess that they were drinking beer for about 8 hours before this. Her and I have spent more time sitting around drinking beer before, so this I can see. Though when she came home later, maybe 6 hours after this, she did not act drunk at all or hungover. She says that she never passed out or fell asleep in the motel room either, so she would have been up at this time for about 19 hours.
What I cant see is a 42 year old man being this stupid to continually try to enter a woman twice and do nothing as in foreplay to make her wet. I would never be that stupid anyway.
I can't imagine just drinking beer would numb a woman down there like this, but not being a woman I do not know.
Would being drunk from beer change what and how she felt ?

Thanks

I think your wife is a big Liar...and you can show her this!!Grrrrrrrr!!!

When I drink..I get more wet and hornier...don't know any woman who don't Craig!!

Wake up and smell the Roses......She is playing you for a fool......

<<<<Better yet....only way to prove her innocence...is by a lie detector test.....do you have any friends on the force??????>>>>

Craig,
The only thing more stupid than a forty two year old man trying to enter a woman for two hours when she is not arroused/wet is the 32 year old woman letting him do it. Now some questons to ponder... Does your wife plan to continue having this affair? Maybe a different one? Can you trust her again? Does her having sex (or trying to)with someone other than you hurt you? Do you love her? Does she love you? Think and think again about what the future could possibly be like if she continues this type of activity.Good Luck.

(Re: Your opinions please) Irish…………..May I?…
 

Thanks….The board has been hectic today…now hop down from that box of OldFart’s and give me a hand up. Have to be serious for a minute!

Craig, I’ve avoided getting into this thread because it’s not a joke, not sexy, not congenial in any way. It’s real and it’s real hard for you. Those of us in the family that know,…….know we don’t know. That gantlet looks just as shitty from both ends. The longer you’re around, the more hits you get. All we can do is share truths. It truly was easier being shot at than to be where you are.

No one, outside, knows all the tiny details that make up your life & situation. We do recognize the big ones.


Like EVERYTHING,……..It will pass!:(

Truly, BEST of LUCK;)

(…and us assholes will be around for ya.) :)

Some of the big ones-
 

...And there's a lot more...........

Are we missing something here?
 

Why do all the specifics matter? The big picture is what I'm having trouble with. Which is YOU are trying to rationalize why YOUR WIFE is lying about the DETAILS!!! The details don't matter. The fact that she is married and "laying up" in a motel with someone else is enough. To add insult to injury, she had sex with him and she's insulting your intelligence by telling you she didn't and that she didn't feel anything. A quadraplegic would have felt someone trying to force themselves into their bodies. Then she has the NERVE to bring her "used" body and lay it in YOUR bed and tell you "Don't touch it, I'm sore." Then you talk about her being with him several hours and drinking with him.

It seems you are looking for ways to justify or excuse what she did. You need to think about the consequences of her actions. Suppose this man had a sexually transmitted disease and that is why she was sore. You need to stop discussing this with her and take action. Kick her lying ass to the curb. The fact that she's STILL lying after you know the worst part shows she has no remorse. And since she sees that she can get away with that kinda thing this probably won't end with this man.

If she has all this FREE TIME on her hands why doesn't she get a job and do something productive. One last question ok two:
#1 Where are you when she's out "doing the do?"
#2 wher did you THINK she was as the hours rolled by?

Seems to me you can't see the forest for the trees.....

craig410---I'm starting to really feel bad at the way your gullablity
is being taken advantage of.Come to think of it-no one gets taken advantage of unless they allow someone to take advantage of them!Open you eyes!the truth sometimes hurts but
you must go on.Everyone has told you their feelings.I;personaly;
have been;eventually;dissapointed by people that I have put my
ass on the line for.Not to mention how it could effect my family!
I agree with Pantyfanatic but hotgirl4u2nite said about everything
that I can think of!Good Luck!!! Irish
P.S.Wake up and smell the coffee!

Heres what I think...
 

You already know in your heart that she is lying and you are either looking for an excuse to believe her and forgive her or you are needing affirmation in hearing what everyone else thinks before you boot her out the door. Shes keeping things from you and to have a healthy relationship you have to have total honesty. Good luck with making that decision.