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God, that lady is just so awesome!!!!

But I want to underline and emphasise Wanda's little disclaimer about that last part:

Cos I don't think that's the sort of person omen is. And WW didn't mean to imply you were!

But if I could pick you up on a point there WW, you said "Your situation? You are going to places where the Women there are most likely looking for something deeper than a quick fuck in the back seat of your car or BJ in the back of the bar."
So, that left a gaping question needing an answer!!
Where should guys be going to find sexually aggressive, shag-and-forget but mentally healthy women? Is it possible in this day and age?
Or do men have to either pay for sex or be deceptive and charm the pants of a lady now if he wants a fuck?

Just hypothetical questions, more for the sake of stirring the pot than anything else.

Bah! Now my post goes to the next page, and my Up arrow just looks stupid now!

Damn you internets!

(((CASPERTG)))

I know what it meant, hon.

And no, I don't have answers for omen.
One possibility is getting to know the local swingers community via adds.
A couple advertising for a second male for example. (they are up front about whether or not they are looking for a bi male, I think)
If they attend parties, that might be your way in.

WW

If it's any consolation, as a woman, finding a clean, respectful, trustworthy, considerate, sexually liberated and giving man for a sex only relationship is even more difficult! I mean, how do you sort the toads from good guys as well as being up front about not wanting a romantic relationship?

When I split with my ex, I wanted sex but knew that I wasn't emotionally ready for a relationship and that it would be unfair on a guy to enter into anything romantic (men have a tendancy to fall for me for some strange reason). Since I couldn't find any suitable partner, I ended up single and sexless for nearly a year.

Incidentally, I believe that men too often have emotional needs that they try to fill with sex, so sometimes, perhaps it would be better to see if you can get those met in other, healthier ways and be happy with your right hand for the physical needs. Just a suggestion.....

Damn Lou love your insight . AS for men falling for you ? I would hate to insult you by choosing just a few atributes

I appreciate what you wrote in wanda. Actually, all of you. Thank you for your comments and insights.
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