I know a lot of women who say they struggle to relax enough to truly enjoy oral, although personally I don't have that problem :licker: :D

Perhaps the same is true for some men.

I prefer to start of slow and then as the temp rises I also continuesly speed up.
I like my man just to lie back and enjoy with him slowly swaying his hips

To give, I like to decide how it goes. I like it to be my idea, unless we're playing a game.

Sometimes I like to just look at him and slowly lick, running my tongue around, but other times, I like to be more aggressive. I don't like to be 'face fucked'.

Hanging with my head off the end of the bed is good too.

When I'm on the receiving end, I like to kick back and relax, with nothing on my mind but completely enjoying what's happening. Moving and grooving with the experience, physically and emotionally.

Listening is the greater in importance on how and what to do. When I'm giving my BF a bj I like for him to allow me to work past my natural gag reflex. When I've done that, he gets the high sign and from then on he's pretty much free to do what he wants in my mouth. I ask him in advance to go from that point and sometimes clasp hands behind my head and press his cock into my mouth as hard and deep as he can. At the same time, I'm squeezing my arms around his ass and pulling myself onto his dick as hard as I can letting him shove the meat and finally the blast of cum down my throat. My girlfriend can't deepthroat me so I let her do anything she wants. I NEVER press without her asking or telling me to. Dear friends, the throat can be injured.

Oh my it's been so long I have forgotten.... LOL
Nuh on a more serious note though, I usually like to start of slow and and then increase my spead and then just go fast slow fast slow, I know it sound unusual, but it feels alot better than it sounds.
I also noticed that the men I have done this too love it when you flicker your tounge againts the head so I try to throw that in aswell

I like it down and dirty, hard and furious, teasing, porno style. It drives me wild and I so get into it especially when I get that look as she takes me totally in. OMG!!!

I agree there is something kind of sexy about feeling the tingle of a slightly bruised mouth after a session of oral....I think I'm going to have to make that happen fairly soon - Fussy, you've been warned!