Two further thoughts,

One is "No, dammit!"

Two is getting her to check with your missus if it's OK.

Once again, the knife of finely tuned logic cuts right thru to the only correct answers...

I would tell her to "hold that thought, and don't go ANYWHERE til I get back!"

then run to ask Mrs. WI if it's ok if I could accept the offer. :D

she is still...
 

You see I have never been seduced before by someone other than my wife .... I am sorely tempted

Hi there just going through the posts and found this.

Anyway there are a few scenarios or avenues you can try here.
1. Tell your wife what her friend has been doing and see how she reacts.
2. Ask this friend if she swings both ways, if she says yes, then approach your wife with "hey your friend wants to know if you are interested in a 3some?"
3. Put her friend in her place and put up all the stops and stone wall her.

Up to your, it is your choice at the end of the day. Just be careful with what you do go with.

Well, if you feel that reason is enough to justify the break up of your marriage to your kids (if you have them) friends and family, not to mention your wife, then go ahead.

Seems like a pretty crap reason to throw it all away to me, but the reality is, even with permission from your wife, having sex outside of your marriage may well result in disaster.

Just take a few moments to imagine losing everything you have that's important for the sake of 'I've only ever been seduced by my wife'. There are plenty of men out there who've never been seduced by anyone, not even their wives if they are lucky enough to have them, so the 'poor me' routine is going to fare poorly as an excuse.

Be honest with your wife about the situation. She may even become more attentive if she feels she has some competition, but for god's sake be sensitive with her!

Well said Lou ^^^ couldn't agree more.