Hello BigBear... (((HUGS)))

I do agree with fallenangel... in that it seems to be an unconcious thing. Tho... I find that I am MOST attractive to those men in my life... tho unfortunately for me... they are married... thus making them off limits.. BUT because we are friends... they know.. LOL... and even encourage me. LOL

I am the type of person that doesn't rush things.. I don't fee comfortable with blind dates.. or spur of the moment relationships... instead... I prefer to get to know them overtime... a friendship built first.... the problem is tho... that there is almost an invisible line... a point where the friendship is toooo established... toooo dear... that I won't risk it...

Hugs..

Yes, there is a "date" and a "not date" division of my male friends. Most of them are on the "date" side ~~ if I like them well enough for froendship, chances are they have the qualities I look for in a date. But sometimes the physical attraction isn't there.