Or you simply point out some interesting attributes or things about them you think the other person may appreciate.

I've always been to shy to make the first move, but that was before my last girlfriend, she opened me up alot but it still took some nudging on a mutual friends part to get us togeather even though we both knew we were realy into eachother.

as someone who has been matchmade
the two i got nudged :rolleyes: towards were good.
but was all physical and not much after that ok for a few months but not a soul mate thing. not for me anyway.
happy being single and spending all my money on me :wine: