myself I hate being retrained!--but love to lightly tie with silk ribbon...just secure enough to retrain the hands but not so to actually hols anyone down.

but there usually is lots of oral, ice cubes, lotions and the like

Nup!

My ties that bind are emotional, not material.

As of yet, I've only been the tie-er. We improvised and used a set of leg irons as handcuffs. Then I held onto the extra long chain to control her arms. Was a lot of fun and a hell of a wrestlin' match! :p I'd definitely like to do more and also to be the tie-ee. We have plenty of things to play with when we do, several sets of handcuffs, the leg irons, a hobble restraint, and god only knows how many scarves, leather straps and lengths of rope we have laying around! As far as rules go, just the basic "if it ain't fun, don't do it" and stop when told to.

Well, found something I have never done!!! Have never tied or been tied. Yep, believe it or not...Miss Tease here has never done this! I am afraid one of us would fall over with a heart attack and leave the other tied up there for police to find..yikes! Yeah, I worry too much.

^^^I have a very strong heart........ and very gentle hands! :D^^^

And am always up for something new!

I did it once way back in college days.... I was tie-er..... and it was fun cause of my teasing nature.:wink:

I have been the tie-ee on almost every occasion. Scarves, ropes, pantyhose, and just self-restraint to list a few of my experiences as the tie-ee. :p

I can only remember being the tie-er at one or two of my many trips into the realm of what I would call a minor S&M. :rolleyes: I don't think I could ever go down the hardcore road.

I think I like to be the tie-ee more than the tie-er, but I think I need to try being a tie-er a few more times before I make up my mind. :D

Welll...in that case........ :slurp:

I have had the opportunity to experience both sides. I can't say that I have an out & out favourite but having the upper hand is generally more of a turn on than being the helpless tormentee.

You've just not had the right tormentor....I'm sure of that.

Does anyone enjoy being tickled?

Not that it "does it" for me, but I was curious.

Anyway, I've tied and been tied...each only once. I really enjoyed being tied but it would've been a bit more exciting had she been more enthusiastic. I did appreciate her willingness to try though.

My wife has "tied me up" a few times but isn't into being tied up, herself. Actually, we seldom do much with bondage at all. Probably been a couple of years since the last time. Looks more exciting than our experience would suggest.

i haven't been posting much lately and i just now saw this. i had to laugh out loud cause i have been stuggling with a story i've been working on about this very thing.
and since i'm checkin out the thread i'll answer: i've been restrained and liked it. i've restrained and liked that, too. i like to be bitten. (oh, and i'll bite you back if you'd like) and there are nights when i've been heard saying "ooo, spank me again" but it's never gone much farther than that or included any specialized toys. i guess i don't have alot of expeience with it, and maybe that's why i couldn't stop editing my story. anyway, this thread got me motivated (thanks, lil :sex: ) as of right now i'm gonna stop fuckin around with it and let it fly already! (okay...one more proof! and then i SWEAR it'll be done)

Well I suppose it's time I threw my hat in the ring. :) I love being tied up, as it quite obvious. It's happened fairly often, and I love it every time. I've tied up my lover before, and while I enjoyed it, it just didn't have the same effect on me as being dominated so does. :)

Haven't had the opportunity yet as I've not had a willing partner but one of these days I will, and I can't wait *LOL* Would love to try both but I'm naturally submissive!