When you use phrases like "lack the ability" and "unable to compete" one might get the impression that a physical problem makes sex impossible for you.Checked your profile.Lets see,you are 20 years old,so whats the problem? There is really no need to rush into anything you are not ready for.It is a good time in your life to cultivate friends of both sexes and enjoy their company.Relax, you are not gay.At best you are bi curious. There is nothing wrong with that.

wow thanks for the great responses people,

i'm feeling alot better about it now,

its just that life hasn't been easy in the relationship section,

and i hope that it changes soon

To tell you the truth, when I was younger I thought "oh man am I gay for thinking women are beautiful?".....but I'm not....I know that I can think women are hot but I still need a MAN in my bedroom because that is what will turn me on the most.

Don't worry mm, it'll happen, i know it!