I have to say I have to be in a certain frame of mind to enjoy anything being stuck up my butt...Sharni & Lil are right about the prostate, that's the man's G-spot, & hitting it just right WILL blow your mind like it's never been blowed before (warn her before you cum, you could put an eye out with the force of your orgasm!) But if you're not quite up to actual penetration at the moment, I have found just the buzz of the vibe on & around the balls (& just below them, above the ass) combined with a little oral and/or manual can be very....uh, stimulating...

Ladies and all

Thanks for the support. I was really turned on by her "fucking me" - a very erotic change, but she thinks it was way, way wrong and even threw out the vibrator. i did it cos i knew it turned her on and it felt great, i felt so ..i don't know kinda exposed and open but so liking it.

now it is very off-limits.

does this disgust other girls? Or turn 'em on?

Wildeye

I love to fuck a man with a vibe while I slurp his yummy man-cock. Makes me drip. First time I did it to Mr. Lil, I tied his hands above his head and blindfolded him. Allowed him/forced him to just feel and not attach meaning to the act.

Wildeye, sign me up for being turned on. Been there, done that, and liked it. And I gave up guilt for Lent...many years ago.

If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad :D

the prostate isn't that far in the rectrum most people think.
here is a small that may help her finding it. and hey, finding will be worth it!!!

f'x

maybe this one is even better

Thank you Thank you....might have to try this tonight. Maybe we will just start with her finger.

I would like to thank everyone for the help. You are all the best. I love having a place where you can talk about sexuall things and no one judges you.

Thank you all again!!!!

Hocque

u are always welcome!

just ask ur questions. don't be shy.

ouch, that's awful harsh babe :( unfortunately, i'm kinda skittish about sex due to having a couple bad relationships where sex was more of a power thing than a good loving thing. so now i can't admit in a relationshipo to liking anything other than "normal" missionary type sex, so he doesn't turn it around and tell me it's wrong/sick/gross/weird. the guy i'm with nowwoiuldn't, but breaking old habits is a bitch. feeling vulnerable and having someone hurt you emotionally while you are is a really really sucky feeling. *hugs*

i love playin with a guy a little anally...not penetration so much as just rubbing and licking and maybe teasing him with a vibrator. because i know it feels good. but my new guy is a lil freaked by it, and he's told me so, so i don't play with him much. every now and then i'll rub or brush lightly over his ass and up under his balls with my fingertips or drag the tip of my tongue over the same area. if he decides he wants me to stop and play, cool, if not, that's ok too :)

The wife will use a g-spot vibrator, well lubed, and insert it in my arse just far enough to contact with the prostrate. If she's giving me a BJ or I'm masturbating for her, she turns it up on earthshattering just before I cum. OMG! :dizzy: It is an unbelievable orgasam.

You might want to play together with sex toys - Have her watch you experiment on yourself with what feels good up your ass while you both play with yourselves. You can share with her what works for you and even have her give you a hand with angle, depth, rotation, etc. Then it's your turn to encourage her while she plays.

Good luck, and be kind and gentle with each other.

well spoken, rick!