My wife knows I lurke / visit and on occasions will join me on the puter to look at pics etc. She thinks it is fine as we all need our own inspiration and / or outlet for relieif.
She would rather know that i would jack off in front of the computer to a fantasy situation with a woman, than play around with the "real thing "on her. She has even told her friends about the site......
Likewise I have no problem with her looking at sites with muscle bound men in tip top shape (wwe etc ) as I know that I will be the one she spends the night with...........

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Seems we're in the minority - my husband doesn't know and I don't think he'd approve. That makes me feel guilty about being on here, like it's wrong, dirty, what have you. Working on getting over that hang-up and once I feel comfortable in my own skin maybe I can include him.

Anyone else been in this situation?

The Mr. and I are both members, and he was the one that encouraged me to post my pictures. It's something we share and enjoy greatly--new friends, new excitements in the bedroom, the photoshoots. It's been a boon for our sex life like you wouldn't believe. We're interested in what the other does here, but more conversationally than in a tabs-keeping manner. We find it highly amusing when we comment on someone's thread and find the other's already been there. Similar tastes, I guess. :) I can't imagine keeping it a secret--it would be a full-time job because I learn so much here, have made friends here, (spend so much time here! :p )--so I'm glad I don't have to.

I have a couple of online communities. Hubby knows that one of them is a sex-site-type. It's really not his "thing". I pretty much only come here when he's not around, more from not being able to stand someone over my shoulder when I'm message-boarding than to hide it from him. That's true of most of my computer time, though, and not just about pixie's. Unless he's got something else occupying his time, I tend to try and hang out with him and the baby over being online :)

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I suppose this is a good thread for me
 

The Mrs. does not know. If she did... well... I probably would not be coming here anymore. :(

Hmmm...my answers slightly more complicated. My bf knows there IS a site I'm playing at...and he's cool with it provided I obey the ground rules ;). But he doesn't know which one and doesn't want to.

So it's not really a secret, just a sort of kind of secret.

My hubby knows and sometimes will even ask me to sign on so we can look around together..here and other places online :heart: And just recently he has told me that if I want to start posting pictures he would help me. He also said he didn't want my playful side to go away either. Needless to say I have quite the open marriage and I just love it. I think my husband loves it too...lol..although that may just be because this valentine's day (among many other exciting and wonderful things he got from me) a big package filled with girl on girl porn and tons of toys came to the door with his name on it..teehee :hot: :heart: :hot: I love playtime :slurp:

Oh have I gotten off the subject..lol..umm yes he knows :)

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My SO knows about Pixies and has heard some of the funnier bits,

but still knows only a small part.

She knows you had a torrid liason with some wild woman when you came to the states right?????

;)

Obviously my other half knows about Pixies - it's how we met!

In fact we often sit and 'perve' together, which often sparks animated discussion about members or their posts. I often run my posts by him, so he can give me a more balanced view on them.....I'm usually saying 'Is this too harsh?' when I'm saying something contraversial.

wyndhy...glad you decided to 'fess up :)

I wish I could get up the guts to do the same! Take it from being just some sex stories site I visit, to pixies-place, the forum about all things sexual. But how to bring it up after being involved here for almost 3 years? There are times when I think it would be wonderful to have him share this place with me...but other times when I want to keep this my escape.