Oh - and to answer the question that began the thread:

I really prefer the written word. There is something about a story that is well written that you can emerse yourself in. It allows me to take my mind places and imagine the story happening in my head. It sends me into a different space unlike watching the porn flick and just getting off without using my mind for stimulation.

^5 my sister from a different mister!

Shutting up now......cause this is the shit that get's me in hot water all the time....lmfao!

Thanks for assuaging my curiosity! Interesting group.

I would say........the written word. It allows you to open your mind and "experience" the sexy hidden parts of other ppls minds. Porn is fine, but it's also pretty tired....I'll take a good hot story anyday

The Fashionistas was named Best DVD at the 2004 AVN Awards!

Of course it was...I know nasssssssty when I see it;)

Written, for sure.

But has anyone else noticed the Japanese obession for small waisted-large breasted women in animation??

Hmmm, maybe it isn't just the Japanese. *LOL*

i really enjoy erotic stories more than anything....I'm hetero, w/ some bi experiences as well....but second on my list would probably be seeing a girl by herself masturbating...I don't know what it is, but it just gets me very excited...maybe I should keep pursuing some more bi experiences...but I much more prefer my bf and well....everything that comes along with bein in love w/ a guy ;)

Maybe if I saw Rocco would change my mind from the written word!

Worked for me:D

I could swear this was asked in another thread! Like most men, I am very visual. Written erotica can be very saucy but images can really fan the flames!

I gotta say it's hard to figure out what women like in porn. I think guys often assume that hardcore in general is not appreciate, but on the other hand I've heard Rocco being praised more than once... And nobody can say he's not hardcore! Sometimes he's too mean to women for my taste... I've seen him just go on pounding even though the woman clearly is in pain and isn't enjoying it. Lilith, mind sharing what you like about Rocco movies? :) I've tried asking my wife what she likes, but it's hard to get any straight answers...

As for ugly men... That one I can understand! Does anybody have suggestions for movies with a lot of good-looking guys? I think my wife would enjoy it... But no silly movies that are supposed to be targeted at women by not having in action in them... She'd be bored!

It depends on the mood I'm in. Sometimes I enjoy watching porn with my husband is a big turn on and other times it's reading a good erotic book.

for me it is the written word most of the time. Gives, the bigest sex organ, my mind a chance to run wild and make it as sexy as the day demands

In my mind, there is ABSOLUTELY NO QUESTION that the written word is best. I am completely unbiased about this. (And my words can be found at www.renebooks.com)