Prophet Reality- didnt really even think of it as a recovering meathod but yeah it makes sense.... thanks!

PantyFanatic- um Mother/ Daughter team? hehe "I believe totally that you have a right to go with your personal desires as they are now, with the awareness of their effects on others." YEP

BIBI - oh so articulate! lol thanks though!

lol how could I not post on the topic posted by the daugter of my good friend bearly lol ^__^

anyway just to add my two cents, I'd like to say that I don't think they have any right to call you a slut, although they may not believe that it's right to date two guys at once as long as the two guys know exactly what the signed on for theres not much of a problem ,

They are old enough to know what they are getting into and so are you so best of luck to both of you, the beliefs of the populace should never hold you back, heck plenty of people live there whole lives not knowing what they truely stand for lol, anyway, as long as you think you can handle it go for it.

Incubus255- I certainly hope they know what they're getting into, as I've been painfully open with both... *grins* Thanks!