definately the second one, i'd feel guilty knowing i enjoyed myself but left someone hanging. so if you ever find yourself in that situation with me, just ask for a bit more and i'll give you the bit more.

Call me crazy, but I would rather go without an orgasm myself than not please my partner. So I'm definitely in the once per month/multiple orgasm group!

This surprises me a bit - when guys were talking about this at work they all went - "anyone, anywhere?"

The first - no question. Maybe they'll outta touch?