I've had my hair played with plenty of times, which was very enjoyable...but I've never had the experience of hair pulling during foreplay or sex. I think as long as it was a gentle tug, I'd be pretty cool with it.

Dare we ask how long BCG's lists of things to try is getting? ;)

LOL dadaist...Good thing I have some time off now to try these things...just need a willing partner :D

raises hand

I think this would be the last place to worry about not finding a volunteer. Just need one who's close and one you can trust.....trust to come post every photo to pixies that is :P

;)

For those of you who were adamantly against hair pulling....

Is it because you are tender headed? You have no interest in intense stimuli like pain? Feel it would objectify you? Feel it denotes disrespect?

In the heat of the moment all is good!;) Giving a good yank on a forward thrust, and I know you just want to be deeper! And I like that!:D

To answer your question Lilith, I have never liked anyone (not even my own children) to mess with my hair. It's just something that bugs me to no end. Hair pulling = fighting to me.

CAT FIGHT!!!!!!

I have a theory about hair:

Women who have short, spikey hair get it played with far more than women with long hair (men are scared to tangle up long hair) and there is something about a girl with short hair that makes you want to ruffle it!

Likewise men with long hair get it played with far more as it is out of the ordinary and my experience is that men who like to have their hair played with grow it long.

I love to have my head massaged and my hair played with (hence I have it short!) and it means that if it's gonna get pulled it gets pulled from the roots which doesn't hurt and doesn't damage the hair.

Doggy or any from behind position is great for hair pulling for me, but I have a tendancy to grab at my guys hair if I'm on top. Not that Fussy has much hair to grab ahold of, so with him, I tend to grasp his shoulders and dig my nails into his chest. He doesn't usually complain at the time though.......afterwards, when he sees the gouges I've made in skin maybe, but it's too late by then! :p

I think you tell us these stories just to turn us all on...but i digress. I find I am not scared of long hair. Had a girlfriend many years ago that used to have me brush hers...sitting around on lazy sunday afternoons..naked in bed...painting her toe nails and brushing her hair.

Brushing isn't quite the same as vigourously massaging the scalp and feeling the hair entwine around your fingers though is it?!

God I'd sell my soul for that *sighs*

My hair grabbed and yanked back…..*growls* Yes please!
I love that kind of “aggression”, it heightens my senses, and sure brings out the wild woman in me.

I've never been with a guy who was afraid to tangle up my hair (I've always had long hair more or less)...quite the contrary. *sigh*

Huntress

I love to get tangled in your hair and play a while.

Stay cool - oh wild one

Wildeye

Dreaming of hair, spouse has wonderful thick hair, especially love playing there will she takes me into her sweet mouth.