Dress him up like a woman, fuck his brains out, and then see if he wants the same fantasy. You might be pleased with the outcome.

Hard rock...Good idea. That is so funny.

Missy,

It is 100% the same thing to consider him having oral sex with a guy and you having oral sex with a girl. It's putting your mouth on the genitals of a person of the same sex. If you (or he) are straight, you're probably repulsed by the idea. There is no reason that you should be less repulsed than he is just because you are a woman! If you don't want to, DON'T DO IT!

I get this sort of the other way. I'm bisexual, and I don't hide that fact. When I'm with a man who finds out I'm bisexual, he wants to run out and get another bisexual woman and watch us! If I'm with a woman, and we're not the type who are "man hating dykes", my female partner and I are asked for a threesome or a "show" on a regular basis. Lesbianism does not exist for the purpose of exciting straight men!

However, I must admit that I enjoy reading stories of gay or bi men, and even enjoy watching 2 bi men in the same threesome I'm in.

i agree with those that say if not comfortable dont do it!! obviously if the scenario isnt felt the same reveresed well why the fuck should you have to go down on a woman?? bit dumb hun- obviously if you have to do this to keep him is it really not worth it in the long run is it? im sure there 're plenty out there who will find a hetrosexual girl damn attractive!!!, if all else fails well there is always roleplaying- just give him the words to make out your doing a lady lol

I agree with you Liz it's exactly the same thing. The bottom line is if I wanted to be with a women it would be between me and her only. Not a game to be played with a man involved. I believe when two people ingage in any sexual relationship that is a private matter and it should be done for all the right reasons. Number one being that there are feelings involved and it shouldn't be taken lightly regardless if it's man and women, women and women etc... He isn't giving me ultimatums at all and he would never leave me because I chose not to be part of this. It's s strong fantasy that he has that's it. If I chose to be with a women it would be a private matter between only us.

Missy, as you keep saying, it's his fantasy, not yours.

The idea that if he keeps mentioning it, acceptance will slowly follow

and he'll fulfill his fantasy is degrading to you and unworthy of him.

Be strong.

Personaly I used to have the same fantasy, but I thinnk it stemmed from my insecurity in bed. Mostly I tried to learn to much from porn, where every lesbian scene seems to be something both women enjoyed. For me the thought of me watching a lesbian experience was more about learning something new. I grew out of it though thanks to a partner who helped me out by "instructing" me in what worked for her. I agree with all the others, if it is not something you want, definetly don't do it.