this is all great...i guess i'm just a little nervous about living up to expectations and things like that.

I doubt your first time will live up to your expectations, especially if your partner is inexperienced. It gets better with practice.

he is a bit older than i am and quite experienced

That was close
 

I almost posted thinking that you're male.

I suggest you do it with you on top that way you have more control. Also, ask the guy to freshen up immediately before both of you get together. If you feel uncomfortable ask him if you can stroke it and check it out for a second. Complement his equipment and keep the moment light and playful.

Don't expect him to bring a condom. If I was you ... I would buy a box just in case he forgets or his is not new or weak. You never know.


Dan


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Girl, just relax, forget expectations, and go with it. Do what makes you feel good, and don't hold back.

Enjoy, and have a good time! ;)

Don

dont forget to fuck his brains out (and hopefully he will return the favor) ;)

my fault. In that case, you will forget everything when he takes his pants off. Dont laugh if its small ethier :D

Besides that take it slow, let him know to go slowly and dont be afraid to be creative

Not to sound Cliche................JUST DO IT

So, how did it go?

If it hasn't happened yet, I would strongly suggest LOTS of foreplay before "the big event".

LMAO, I was as clueless reading the start of this thread as all the rest i do believe? like Steph, if it has already happened how did it go? If it has not, have no expectations, relax, and lotssssss of foreplay, and when you feel ready do it.

Another Tip
 

If you still feel nervous beforehand, ask him to kiss it for good luck. If he's already did that ... ask him to do the alphabet. For those of you who don't know, thats when you trace each letter of the alphabet over the top section of the Pu*sy (the hood).

If he did both those things and you're still a little nervous ... ask him to rim you. I've never done that, but a guy has to be wild for you if he does it.

Since your first time will not be perfect it might as well be unforgetable. Besides, if he makes you cum 3 or 4 times ... you have something to brag about to your friends in the future.


Dan

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you guys are very cute......and thanks for all the advice.

i will say that i did follow through with it, but it wasnt as "earth-shattering" as i had hoped.

It gets better........I promise!:)

i can only hope so !!