making love brings u closer wither rough,weird, or romantic----fucking seems to be a more selfish activity(in a good way!) who knows!----as long as I get a hug I'm happy!

Irish...I agree with you 100 percent I couldn't have said it better myself. I also believe if a person does not take the time to kiss you then there is obviously something wrong. To me kissing is a very intimate thing and sometimes very over looked and a very passionate kiss can mean more then words at times. The bad thing is someone who never kisses you that should be a clue as to how things really are between two people.

actually... it has been soooo long.. I don't remember :( :(

Oh poor Jenna!! OK everybody... let's go help Jenna remember!

They are different..............but it's ALL GOOD!!! :D:D ;)

Just different times for them I guess......

Categories...fuck the categories.

It's all about intent, whatever the trappings.

yeah, there is a line there somewhere, but when I find it, I do my personal best to obliterate that line.

My gf and I do and enjoy both. Our quickies are fast and furious and much different from when we make love. Both are wonderful.

its all good in a loving relationship!

I'll say as a rule of thumb if one of you has to get dressed and go home pretty quick afterward, it's most likely fucking. Lovemaking from my point of view is an all enveloping endeavor. It's how you treat someone before and after the sex that defines it. You might say from a guy's point of view, it's the state of the heart not the hard that makes it loving.

I've never once said, "Oh baby, make sweet, passionate love to me". It might end up being what happens......but if I say anything, it's usually, "Oh gawwwwwwwd, I want you to fuck me so hard and deep........etc., etc., etc.!

So....what is my answer? I think I forgot the question! :confused:

BigBear.............. THE PERFECT ANSWER!!!!!!!;)

If there's bloodshed and the C word is involved it's fucking.

I agree with you WildIrish, making love includes wine, dinner, and soft caresses, but could be followed by fucking and having the "C" word involved and even the "A" word and definitely the "F" word and probably many more from the alphabet.

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Irish, we all know you're a romantic ;)

I think there's definately a difference...although I have trouble pinning it down, since I pretty much always get the snuggle afterwards :)

Yummy:hump: