waking up your partner
 

One of the things my wife loves more than anything is when I "wake" her from a deep sleep by a series of touches, massaging, and whispering into her ear.


When my wife and I do this, it is usually more spontaneous than planed. We just seem to move toward each other and start caressing one another, once I am awake I start to rub and caress her body all over. I try to avoid to much contact with her action spots (breast and pubic area); I also start giving her gentle kisses on her neck and shoulders. I can tell how well she is responding by the way her body is reacting while still in a light sleep she will turn towards me and arch her back more to make her breasts more available, this means she want me to massage and suck on them, When she spreads her legs and starts to rock her hips I gently start rubbing her pussy, alternating between long slow up and down strokes and slow circles covering her whole mound. I make sure to avoid penetrating her with my fingers just staying on the outside of her, lightly rubbing her and only contacting the clit now and then. By now she is awake but she always keeps her eyes closed as if still in dream land. When her breathing becomes shallow and rapid I will slip one or two fingers in side her and make the "come here" motion to rub her G-spot while using my thumb to rub clit this will send her over the edge and she will have a long intense climax. Or sometimes instead off fingering her I will go down on her and tongue her with long strokes from bottom to top and use the underside of my tongue to rub her clit while I slip my finger in to rub her G-spot. Either way she has earth shattering orgasms. At this point she will finally open her eyes, I swear she looks into my soul with look of longing and whispers “I love you" and asks me to make love to her.

My problem here is that by the time she wakes up, I am so turned on, it only takes me a couple of minutes to orgasm, and then I am pretty much done for the night.
Since she has had one orgasm she tells me it’s ok that I finish so soon, but I know she would enjoy it even more if I could hold out and give her a second climax. It is just that I am so worked up with anticipation that I just can’t hold on, I don’t know maybe I am complaining about nothing or maybe some things just cant be over came.

Has anyone else done anything like this?, and does anyone have suggestions on how to slow down the end result, so I am not finishing before she even really has a chance to enjoy the feeling of fullness that comes from being penetrated.

Let me know your thoughts
Thanks

ummmmmmmm I would pay $38974982375239874529375934759 for that!!!!! I love middle of the night sex.....where your body takes over and you just seem to flow into a dream-like blissful orgasm.

She is telling the truth.......she came, it was sexy and spontaneous. You can cum quickly and then nestle back down to sleep. It's all sexy as hell.


Oh and I thought I was the only one that the back arching thing happens to........

wow...sounds very sexy.... i can't wait till i get to experience such passion!

I love getting woken up that way. I can't think of a better way to wake up. Something about the way you feel somewhere between awake and asleep.....when you're not sure if you're dreaming or its real. Either way you don't want it to stop. Its a great feeling.

HAH! Lilith...I got you beat dearheart...

cuz I'd pay $$38974982375239874529375934759.99 for that!

I'd go that extra .99 for something that spectacular.

I'm betting your wife is perfectly satisfied just the way things are....and might I add


*heavy heavy sighs and wishes that were ME gettin' some of dat!*

I'll see your .99 and raise you 1.03:p

Um...what does a bazillion dollars look like?


How about a kazillion? :p

ROFL! I'm out of the betting, high rollers, but I agree! My guy can go forever sometimes and when it's quicker than usual, he apologizes! I don't know why he does, it's GREAT at different lengths! Sometimes it's going to last 20 minutes, other times 5 minutes rocks the casbah!

What a way to go.....satisfying my woman first frees me to cum as quick or as slow as the situation allows. I do find that the more worked up i am the faster I cum...and as with most things in life it comes down to the mind....allowing myslef time to slow back down..and let my mind calm down helps prolong....till she cums two or three times between penetrations until..eventually i let go and wow...what explosions.... The mind is an incredible tool...for good and bad....

Holy cow! Can I come to your house one night? LOL Better yet, you can just have a chat with my hubby about this middle of the night thing. I know that if I were your wife, I would definitely be satisfied after all of that and would be perfectly happy to snuggle up to sleep.

My boyfreind (bless him) once tried to wake me up that way, i was fine until he got his head between my legs, then, still asleep, i lamped him round the head, throwing him out of bed!!! I wasnt in the good books when i woke up!

Well that brought back some memories. My ex used to do that and it was GREAT!!! Just one mind blowing orgasm in that dream like state is worth it. It doesn't matter how long you last...getting to snuggle after that makes it all the better.

Listen to us women we know what we like!

I see why the men apologise for not lasting very long.

The amount of times I've heard people arguing, then you just hear "well, I hope she enjoys her 2 minutes".

Its cruel. And not damn fair!

I can safely (and proudly) say, i wouldnt say things like that.

My current Bf (love ya, babe), bless him, was a virgin when I met him. He was intimidated by my "experiance" (which he exaggerated wildly!), and was so scared he wouldnt be any good, there were times when he "couldnt get it up", because of this.

The more nervous he got, the less times he could "get it up", and the more he "couldnt get it up", the lower his confidance got.

he's very confidant now tho.... and so he should be...yum!

I wonder if it's a guy thing. Apologizing after cumming so soon. My bf does it too, but he can't seem to get the fact that I don't mind through his pretty little head. A lot of the time I want him to finish quickly, it just feels that much better for me, I don't like prolonged sex. I tend quite often to get bored and start to fall asleep even. That's not very often, but it still happens sometimes. Am I the only one that thinks short sex is just as good, if not better, than long sex?

On a side note, damn! You have one lucky wife mister! I wish my bf did that for me, but for some odd reason i can't fall fully asleep if he's laying beside me :( I'm soo weird :'( >.<

that's rather unfortunate to hear that you like short sex better. It's my expirience that when a woman says that then se doesnt have a terribly good partner. Sex is never boring if you have a good partner. My girl friend (soon to be wife i hope) will keep me up all night. I loose track of the time it seems to move so quickly during sex.....Anyway, you should find someone to give your boyfriend a few pointers.