Biggest Sexual Pet Peeve?

[lixnlix69]

I would love answers from everyone....male and female.

But MY response to this is directed to the ladies........

Ladies?......have you ever been with a man that sweats?

I don't mean....."Whew baby, we have been at this for hours and we are dripping wet"!

I mean......"Damn baby, we hardly made a move and you are dripping oceans all over me"!

I was in a relationship where the man dripped buckets of sweat from his armpits. And it wouldn't have been so horrible but in the middle a passionate moment (ie: missionary style with him holding himself above me, getting ready to kiss me) he would leak tons of sweat on my face as if I were in the middle of a "Chinese Water Torture". I have to say.............Ewwwwwwwwww!


OK..........does anyone want to unload a "Sexual Pet Peeve"?

[Mr. 3G]

I know. I know. Not really a PEEVE - more like a CRISIS and it happens to everybody but .... in the throes of unbriddled passion, kneeling at the side of the bed munching away and she's got her knees up around her ears and RIGHT AT THE WRONG MOMENT - BRRRAAAAAATTTTT! Talk about orgasmus interruptus...

She wanted to jump out a window. After the initial shock and evacuation of the immediate area, I couldn't stop laughing.

Vaginal farts are funny too. I can still remember the very first time that happened..."what the F.....? " OH. I get it. Like a little air pump when you're in that position....so THAT'S why your eyes are bugging out like that! Important for young couples to learn of these NORMAL things before it happens the first time and they both almost die of shock!!

[Lilith]

Mine is ~ asking permission ~ do not ask just go for it!!!!!! I guarantee if I do not like it you will know...and if I love it you will know that too ;)

[rabbit]

When a woman achieves her orgasm first and then decides she's had enough before I can even enter her. ARRRGHH!

rabbit

[Wicked Wanda]

Lilith, sugar...
I am afraid to tell you that "asking permission" is the rule at many schools/colleges. I was shocked when I was out with a boy from a midwestern liberal arts college, and he kept asking "May I kiss you, may I hug you, may I touch you there, may I unbutton your...?..." it was ANNOYING!!!! I got peeved, and asked him what on earth was going on. It seems while at school he had signed a code of conduct that outlined EACH step he had to take during a date, and when to ask permission!!! This was OFFICIAL University Policy!! So I opened his pants and made sure he had other things to think about besides that piece of paper!!
Campus rapes/date rapes are a very scary thing, but this is not a good answer...

Frustrated,


WW

[PantyFanatic]

Biggest Sexual Pet Peeve?

NOT HAVING ANY!

[Nice Guy]

My biggest pet peeve would be pleasuring my woman and then she just ignores me and I leave with the worlds worst case of blue balls.

[bucksman]

Pet peeve - yes I guess that would have to be a partner who enjoys oral sex but fails to allow me to enjoy it. I know some women have bad experiences with guys who do not take care in the hygiene department or who will not accept cum in their mouth, but both of these can be overcome.

Dont enjoy what you are not prepared to deliver yourself.

[Lovediva]

Not being able to acheive an orgasm when I really need one!! I just hate those days!!!!!

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by bucksman
a partner who enjoys oral sex but fails to allow me to enjoy it. I know some women have bad experiences with guys

Dont enjoy what you are not prepared to deliver yourself.

Unfortunately, this also applies in the other direction. Men that will accept and enjoy a blow-job but refuse to reciprocate.
I don't know why....perhaps they think it's "gross", I don't know.
So many of the men here at Pixie's indicate they love performing oral on their s/o's...that's wonderful! But where the hell were men like you when I was young and single??? I've only had 2 partners in all my years that were that generous....

I feel that if you take, then you damn well ought to give in return!!
Good sex of any type should be both give and take!

[dicksbro]

The kids come knocking at the door of our bedroom or the phone rings at the most inopportune time :(

[PantyFanatic]

I've only had 2 partners in all my years that were that generous....
It’s GREED on my part! :p :p :p


(and where the hell were you?……):(

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by pantyfanatic

:p :p :p


(and where the hell were you?……):(


Not in Cleveland.....you'd have had to travel North, across the Lake to Motown...

[Ione]

grrrr
i hate when he gets his and then its all over. god forbid he ever helps me get off...
and like 99% of the time it is like that :*(((
doesn't kiss well...breath smells...
and then he complains when i use the vibrator and fantasize about girls...

so my sexual pet peeve is my s/o argh

[lixnlix69]

WOW!!!!

Great replies everyone.........TY so much......Keep um cumming and let some steam off!

Mrs. Lix

[A.K.'s Sex-Pot]

Well, i've had partners who were into receiving and not giving oral, so that would have to go on the list.

I also can't stand the asking permission thing, but my biggest peeve of all would have to be when my ex was in the mood and i wasn't and he would ask me to seduce him!!! How crazy is that, surely the one who isn't in the mood should be seduced by the one who is?

He was rather lazy when it came to turning me on, but then was upset when a couple of weeks after we'd split, i had got it together with a cyberlover (A.K.). That's what happens if you don't take the time to learn what your partner is into - someone else comes along who does!

[prettyviolet]

I suppose the thing I hate the worst is when SO doesn't pay attention to me any other time except when he wants sex. He complains that I never initiate, but every time I ever have, he turns me down......once he even told me "It's mine, leave it alone!" However, God forbid if I'm too tired or sick or something! I think I've turned him down a total of four times in eight years, so what the hell's he got to complain about??! I would love to have more affection, more hugs and kisses, more touching......(sigh!)

[A.K.'s Sex-Pot]

O bless you!

I'm not one to tell people what to do, but you do realise that you deserve so much better than that, don't you?

I frequently turned my ex down sexually, because he just didn't turn me on, but if ever i initiated anything, he would always reject me. It's almost like a power thing with some men. It's as though they resent you for being desirable and if you show that you have any kind of powerful sexuality, they are totally intimidated by it.

There are men out there who respect a woman for her sexuality, not inspite of it though. You only have to take a look at some of the Pixie men!

[1wildpussycat]

biggest sexual pet peeve.....A man that says he is great at giving face.....and all he does is lick you clit....there is much more to a pussy then just a clit DAMN get into it and eat like you are never going to eat it again

[love_2licku]

Originally posted by Ione
grrrr
i hate when he gets his and then its all over. god forbid he ever helps me get off...
and like 99% of the time it is like that :*(((
doesn't kiss well...breath smells...
and then he complains when i use the vibrator and fantasize about girls...

so my sexual pet peeve is my s/o argh

*sigh* Hun, that is a HUGE sexual pet peeve. If I was about 10000 miles closer to you, Id help you out :D I make it a point to please the woman several times before even starting the actual intercourse. Even then, I hold back until she cums at least once during intersourse (at least I try lol) Sometimes, the shit is just TOOO good to hold back a load ;)

[love_2licku]

Originally posted by 1wildpussycat
biggest sexual pet peeve.....A man that says he is great at giving face.....and all he does is lick you clit....there is much more to a pussy then just a clit DAMN get into it and eat like you are never going to eat it again

Hehe, I had one woman almost in convulsions cause I was going to town. Hard to get away from me when I pull ya back to eat somemore :D I get so hungry that my tongue should be considered an illegal weapon ;) Wanna try and prove me wrong? :p

[love_2licku]

Originally posted by Sugarsprinkles
I feel that if you take, then you damn well ought to give in return!!

"Its better to give than receive"....no, scratch that! lol Thats what they make 69 for! :D If he dont lick ya enough, smother that face LOL Kinda hard not to take a puss in the mouth when you cant breathe :)

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by love_2licku

If he dont lick ya enough, smother that face LOL Kinda hard not to take a puss in the mouth when you cant breathe :)

What fun is there in it if you have to "force" it? Besides, he won't be forced into doing anything he doesn't want to...sexually or any other way.

I gave up on this years ago....

Please don't misunderstand me....for all my complaining about my husband I still love him dearly! He's good and decent man who loves me and treats me well in every other way. I wouldn't trade him for the world!

[A.K.'s Sex-Pot]

Couldn't agree more, Sugarsprinkles!

For me the turn on of 'receiving' is all about a guy wanting to do that to me, and if i have any doubt about whether he wants to be down there or not, i won't enjoy it.

However, my experience of men is that even if they know that it is about your least favourite thing in the world to do. They'll still be happy to accept it if you offer it! The dick is mightier than the conscience methinks!

[Steph]

My pet peeve is lack of adventure. Why does it always have to be missionary and doggie style? Keep trying new things! :)

[nikanik]

My biggest pet peeve with my so is that he makes me come too much. i know this sounds like a good thing but sometimes an orgasm takes a lot out of you and then he gets up set when i sorta pass out and want to take a nap.

[Radies]

My biggest pet peeve is the teasers....I mean it's ok to a certain degree, but when i have the tip of my other head nudging against her lips, and suddenly things are going to quickly......I mean come on...that's no longer playful, it's cruel

[love_2licku]

Sugar, I meant that as a joke lol. Didnt mean for anyone to take it seriously :D

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by love_2licku
Sugar, I meant that as a joke lol. Didnt mean for anyone to take it seriously :D

OOoopps!!!

[baddie_simon]

My pet peeve is "CRAMPS" Nothing worse then your merrily bonking away and the back of your legs go stiff and seize up. It's just so WRONG to get cramp at that time.

[Casperr]

Oooh, baddie_simon, I have to agree with you here!!!
I can't come with my legs bent or the tensing just cramps my thighs! Really great for destroying the moment!

CasperTG

[bunny_girl]

Originally posted by prettyviolet
I suppose the thing I hate the worst is when SO doesn't pay attention to me any other time except when he wants sex.

I so know that feeling, I cant get hold of my man at the moment (not answering his phone or calling me) unless he wants something. grrrrrr :mad:
The thing I probably hate more though is impatient blokes lik when my man totally kills the moment by asking me to go down on him, just let me get to it in my own time :mad:

[love_2licku]

Where at in England? :confused: :rolleyes: :D