Anyone?

[LarryL]

Can anyone out there talk to me to help me get through the night without any more damage?

[Cheyanne]

Hey Larry... whatcha wanna talk about?

Perhaps going into chat? (((HUGS)))

[LarryL]

I just started a chat with someone else. Forgive me.?

[Cheyanne]

LOL... yes!!! But just so you know, if you need to talk, there are lots of us here!

((((LarryL))))

[imaginewithme]

LarryL,
I am thinking of you and wishing you good things

[Belial]

Hey buddy,

Hope you're in good hands :) I'll talk to you whenever, just ask :)

[Steph]

I just started a chat with someone else. Forgive me.?

It really sounds to me like you're waiting for attention when you do this. You really need a therapist one on one. An Internet board is not the place for someone who has gender/cutting/suicidal issues.

I do not want to downplay any feelings you're having but seriously, as an alleged counsellor yourself you really need to find the proper avenues.

[LarryL]

I'm not!

[Steph]

OK then

[LarryL]

It really sounds to me like you're waiting for attention when you do this. You really need a therapist one on one. An Internet board is not the place for someone who has gender/cutting/suicidal issues.

I do not want to downplay any feelings you're having but seriously, as an alleged counsellor yourself you really need to find the proper avenues.

I'm not waiting for attention. I have found some "more appropriate" internet boards where such discussions are common, welcome, and helpful. Pixies sure as hell is not the place. IF I ever return, it will be in the proper avenue of fun and games only. That's all this place seems to be good for, fun, flirting, and farting around.

[Steph]

I am just suggesting that any Internet board is not the forum for such problems.

As a counsellor, you probably realize that therapy is necessary.

[LarryL]

I am just suggesting that any Internet board is not the forum for such problems.

As a counsellor, you probably realize that therapy is necessary.

As a counsellor, I thought that therapy combined with a supportive internet group might be a powerful combination. Yes, I am in therapy.

I believe that any further conversation between us is as completly unnecessary as Pixies has turned out to be.

[Steph]

I believe that any further conversation between us is as completly unnecessary as Pixies has turned out to be.

Again with the dramatics.

You have come to this site with a myriad of "problems" and I have heard you are doing it on other boards.

I helped you and researched your sexual identity crisis. Others have helped you when you felt like cutting yourself.

You had a remarkable recovery from your "nervous breakdown".

Please let us know when the killer bees descend upon you so we can help you then.

[LarryL]

Again with the dramatics.

You have come to this site with a myriad of "problems" and I have heard you are doing it on other boards.

I helped you and researched your sexual identity crisis. Others have helped you when you felt like cutting yourself.

You had a remarkable recovery from your "nervous breakdown".

Please let us know when the killer bees descend upon you so we can help you then.


Don't you ever shut up.

[BIBI]

I'm not waiting for attention. I have found some "more appropriate" internet boards where such discussions are common, welcome, and helpful. Pixies sure as hell is not the place. IF I ever return, it will be in the proper avenue of fun and games only. That's all this place seems to be good for, fun, flirting, and farting around.

Well I am sorry to step into the fray here but the people here were very very supportive and comforting to you a very short while ago. Please don't denigrate Pixies NOW, just because someone has spoken their mind to you.

And please don't give me platitudes about how I don't understand and have no sympathy for someone who has major depressive disorder.......cause I do from very personal experience. ME.

[jennaflower]

Wtf???????

[Steph]

Don't you ever shut up.


Not when I'm dealing with complete bullshit, nope. :D

[PantyFanatic]

.....I believe that any further conversation between us is as completly unnecessary as Pixies has turned out to be.

I’m sorry we have so abruptly become “completely unnecessary”. I’m starting to feel used. :(

[LarryL]

Not when I'm dealing with complete bullshit, nope. :D

This is it then. I've had a hell of a night. I've said some terrible things I wish I could take back. I apparently am a laughing stock of this group and according to Steph many other groups. If I say now that you are right in the attention-seeking part, that will be more bullshit. (But I think you are right. That's been my whole life. God Fucking Damnit. Who the hell cares? When will I learn that?) I've painted myself into a corner by just trying to be honest with whatever came up at the time. Now I have to drop all internet groups because of my bad reputation. I don't know which ones think I'm an ass or not. I will never get anything right. I know you don't believe a thing I say, who would, when even I'm not sure what I'm saying.
Thank you Step for teaching me to keep my fucking mouth shut about anything sad, bad, wrong, or messed up.

If I could make this right I would. But fuck me for trying cause there's nothing I can do now. I've gone too far.

[fzzy]

LarryL ... Talk to me anytime you have the need. There are different experiences that people have and so we each come to Pixies (or other boards I imagine as well) with our own opinions, etc. ((((LarryL))))

[PantyFanatic]

“……That's been my whole life. God Fucking Damnit. Who the hell cares?…..”

I didn’t get that from what she said. :confused:

I was hearing that after the MANY caring people that has tried to extend understanding and guidance to true help with the MANY epiphanies and radical swings you’ve experienced in the four short month with us, you need help that we can’t provide from an internet sex site.

The MANY members that have tendered caring feelings and concern are not trained professionals capable of dealing with some of the EXTREMS I’ve seen posted by you. After everything available to our members has failed to help, I can only hope the Golden 2 x 4 was able to “nudge” in a direction that will be more secure for you. :)

[Catch22]

You can only get so much from the net. You need person to person help. We are on here mostly as just words on a screen. That can be some comfort, but not all of it.

[jaybee from UK]

Greetings Larry,

Apologies in advance if I'm coming in late here, but why not ALSO talk out your problems here? I can see you're hurting, so I think it's understandable for you to lash out.

But are you honestly and thoroughly talking through your problems with someone? Just start from the beginning, I know it's rough, just make a start and I'm sure we'll ask questions on the parts we want to clarify.

This is a sex site, and sex is pleasure. It goes without saying that nobody comes here for LACK of pleasure, so I don't think anyone here wants to see you hurting - well, unless you're into BDSM!!

:)

Talk it out mate, just start from the beginning, and work your way through the present day. We're here for you.

[kathy1]

Wtf???????

*sits on the "wtf couch" with jennaflower*
*passes her the popcorn and a cold one*

[BigBear57]

Slides in between the ladies on the WTF couch and roots for Steph... killer bees LOL

[kathy1]

I’m sorry we have so abruptly become “completely unnecessary”. I’m starting to feel used. :(


oooooooo since Larry is done with ya....can I use you for awhile? :halo:

[LixyChick]

*scooches in on the "wtf" couch*

How does this keep happening? One minute we are saints...the next we are pieces of shit! We're damned if we do and damned if we don't...in whatever the situation. I should keep my mouth shut (or fingers idle) but I hate when we don't suit someone suddenly! I'm with PF on this one...I feel so used!

Oops! Am I spose to talk on the "wtf" couch? Ahhhh...just pass me a cold one and some of that popcorn!

[Grumble]

Larry I care about you but I do not know what to say to help you other than say that you do need some help one to one. The moods swings and outbursts are pretty scary to even read.

Different people react in different ways but I think that the caring people here have tried very hard to be supportive.

Steph was showing her concern and frustration that you seem to surge into all sort of different crises and we cannot help you as we are not equipped to do more than support.

Please get some immediate professional help buddy, we want you to get well.

[BigBear57]

*hands Lixy a cold one and points to the bag of popcorn in my lap* Lixy Darlin' you talk all you want and have some popcorn please :rolleyes:

[BIBI]

Don't you ever shut up.

Do you???

[Catch22]

And here is a pic of the wtf couch team.

[kathy1]

*reaches in the bag of popcorn*

hey, i didn't know we had the sticky kind with nuts


and ty catch22....loved the group portrait LMAO

[PantyFanatic]

I know Steph has been helping people with their personality conflicts for a long time. :rolleyes:

[osuche]

Hmmm....we've had a lot of drama on the boards this past few months...and I am afraid I've also been a bit guilty of perpetuating some of it. Our community has been a bit sensitive since Skip's death....and I think everyone here is still raw. I know I am.....

Larry, I hope you find the peace you need. It's difficult to find much abiding support from Pixies or any other board. We have a remarkable group of people here, but they cannot *make* you happy. You have to find the internal strength to love yourself, feel comfortable inside your own skin, and then you will have the peace you need.

We are all just traveling companions along our own internal quests for happiness and self-knowledge. (((Larry)))

[WildIrish]

A lot of peeps have worked on some pretty heavy issues here at Pixies, one on one as well as in "group", and I think we've all moved way past just being a sex site. Though, I admit, I do still look at the pictures now and again.

It is important to remember that I am a goofball on the internet, and though I can offer some honest and candid viewpoints on various topics...I don't know the entire situation and every little detail. You are the only one that knows that kind of stuff. The other important thing to remember is...I'm not alone! As somebody said, none of us are equipped to offer real help but all are available to lend an ear and some thoughts.

I also come here for "lack of sex". Well, it seems that way anyways. The more I come here, the more I realize I need sex! lmao

I'm so jealous of bigbear! I wanted to be the one doing the popcorn trick with those lucious ladies! Grrrrrrrrrr!

And PF...that was a damn funny 3some pic but it wasn't of Steph. If it had been her, the two on the tables would've been her dog and cat. :D

Oh yeah, rumor has it that the killer bees are moving really slow now so it's all good for awhile.

[LixyChick]

*hands Lixy a cold one and points to the bag of popcorn in my lap* Lixy Darlin' you talk all you want and have some popcorn please :rolleyes:
Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! I love that trick...and the extra "butter" you've provided sweetums! :rolleyes: *giggle*