View Full Version : What are people's views and opinions are on cybersex and does anyone ever do it?
hornylass
06-19-2003, 11:54 AM
Just wondering what people's views and opinions are on cybersex
and wondering if anyone ever does it?
Moi? Well yes I do occasionally when I can't get any. I love making my imagination run wild!
So what do other people think?
Please reply:
Luv and Kisses
Hornylass
xoxox
:heart: :sex: :spank:
Goddess_X
06-19-2003, 12:14 PM
Interesting poll Lass.
I answered yes. Because I have indeed indulged.
I think alot has to do with the chemistry of the two people involved. And its an evolved situation in my case. Not a first encounter conversation, but something that happens over time of mutual sharing and mental bonding. (for lack of better terminology)
Open chat flirtatious fun is way different then an intimate one on one conversation. (ie: the love bean bag fun in chat this morning :grin:)
I adore cyberspace because in some/alot of cases people tend to be more relaxed to share their feelings and thoughts on subjects that just don't arise in normal life. I mean when was the last time you discussed masterbation with the guy ahead of you in line at the grocery? lol Funny thought huh?
I am very open in chat and in reality. Always have been that way. But a large part of my deviant mind stays sheltered for this forum to keep me from getting arrested hehe
Can't wait to hear the views of others on this.
Thank you Lass for such an interesting thread
hornylass
06-19-2003, 12:26 PM
My pleasure,
Thanks for your honest view on this.
I am also looking forward to other peoples views.
:D :) :bfly: :cool:
hornylass
06-19-2003, 12:55 PM
OK,
Whoever posted once a day every day in my poll please get in touch I need some desperate TLC right now!!!!
Hornylass is getting very horny!
:sex: :spank:
Sharni
06-19-2003, 01:27 PM
Nope never.....not my thing
I'm too much of a hands on type person i guess
darkangel37
06-19-2003, 01:33 PM
I agree with Goddess - I think she got it about right. i like to think I'm an open minded guy and enjoy exploring my imagination which isn't always as easy up close and personal!
Loulabelle
06-19-2003, 01:51 PM
I went a year without the real thing and so I dabbled in the realm of cybersex (as some people here at Pixies well know!) but to be honest it's not really my thing. I think most people would prefer the real thing and when you're getting that I feel it's not worth the emotional complications it can bring.
That said, virtual fun can lead to the real thing, which is an excellent thing if you're both single and most certainly makes for an open and exciting physical relationship as well as ensuring that the connection you feel is mental and not just based on physical appearances.
hornylass
06-19-2003, 02:30 PM
HMMMMMMM..........
Interesting replies people................
Keep them cumming ;)
Luv Ya loads
Hornylass
:sex: :heart: :spank: :bfly:
eightinchcock69
06-19-2003, 03:15 PM
i checked yes ocassionally
i think it can be amazing to get really uninhibitted online and explore your fantasies.
webcams make it that much more fun
cowgirltease
06-19-2003, 03:30 PM
mystery is so sexy!!!
Euphemism
06-19-2003, 05:08 PM
There are times so intense and people so wonderful in chat that they can make me cum without even touching myself. Believe me, for that kind of orgasm, it's worth a few bad apples in the occasional ventures into Cyber.
Booger
06-19-2003, 07:41 PM
what cyber sex me no never
ok you got me I indulged enjoy it quite a lot but it has to be someone I know(whether thats from chat or reading there post on the boards) not just someone who hops into chat and thats all they want
buffay
06-19-2003, 07:53 PM
I do when ever the mood stricks with the right person....but most times i am alone anyway...and webcamming is great...most nights i just sit here toppless and talk to others...to me it does not matter who sees(as long as that person is not related to me..lol)
Kimberly73
06-19-2003, 08:01 PM
I don't cyber.....but the reason I don't is because I'm not very good at it. I try it occasionally but I guess I just need someone to help me out with it. Maybe I'm just better at the real thing....
For some reason I never know what to say....yet I have no problem actually doing it. I guess its just something I need to work on more :D
BlueSwede
06-19-2003, 10:34 PM
I've had to go many months at a time w/o any physical contact and often any kind of contact w/my fiance, and I hungered for some type of contact sexually. Solo sex can be damned lonely. Often I'd come home from a hard night's work, stressed to the max, wanting someone to f**k the heck out of me. But because my fiance was not available, even to cyber, and because I do have an emotional investment there, I was not looking for contact that was in any way one on one. I preferred essentially total anonymity. I'd go into a chatroom at Yahoo, usually one entitled something like Watch women having orgasms, and I'd turn on my cam. I kept myself blocked from being able to receive PMs. Thus, whoever wanted to watch could. Often the comments made by those in the room was enough feedback for me that I felt I wasn't having solo sex, but it also was not personal, if you know what I mean. As I said, I was not looking for any type of emotional investment.
I did it often enough that one guy even included my name in the title of his chatroom, and I had a regular fan club so to speak. It was fun for quite a while. Then I just got bored with it. A few people who were especially nice in the rooms I DID end up talking to later on. One I became very close to, and we have talked or PM'd each other daily since. Once in a blue moon I will cam for him, but mostly it's just a good friendship in which he is very supportive of the situation I am in (LDR, etc.).
So, in answer to your question, yes, I have, but I rarely do it anymore.
dadaist
06-19-2003, 11:12 PM
Yeah I have done it. Lots more often when I was younger than now. If there's a willing and above all creative and descriptive partner it can still be great fun. There are other things two people can do with distance between them though that I find MORE intense, but I'll shut up now ;)
Takira
06-19-2003, 11:18 PM
i cyber everyday with with someone i love very much. the feeling of pleasure he gives me and the freedom to use our imaginations are great. in cyberspace we are free to do what we can't do irl. for that i am very greatful. ;) :D
Tipper
06-20-2003, 01:18 AM
would love the ability to cyper daily.....ummmmm
Passion Please
06-20-2003, 04:46 AM
I think so much is situational as we hav read from all the postings.
At the right time with the right person cyber can be incredible (and so can phone sex) But first there needs to be a realtionship... something to connect to, to relate to.
The beautiful thing about cyber is there are no geographical boundaries and it is as safe as you make it, and yet is so real.
It is not a substitute for the real thing but rather compliments my diet, like meat and veggies.
I have made and enjoyed some wonderful online relationships from africa to america and europe and australia.
If you enjoy it....why not...
Joshka
06-20-2003, 06:50 AM
I had my first eperience with cyber yesterday, in the same bean bag chair as Goddess actually !!!!
My biggest worry was what to say and how people would react, and I have to say that i prefer a private chat than a public one.
Yesterday certainly wetted my appetite and I would love to chat more.
Just like the martini ads - anytime, anyplace, anywhere
hellsbells
06-20-2003, 08:56 AM
I voted yes to everyday, which is not strictly true, but Horseman12 and I cyber more than just occationally, and we do whenever possible, sometimes this makes the distance between us unbearable. With luck though, we will be together so this won't be a problem and our cybering days will be over.
Goddess_X
06-20-2003, 12:34 PM
Originally posted by Joshka
I had my first eperience with cyber yesterday, in the same bean bag chair as Goddess actually !!!!
Dammit, I knew I shoulda stayed. I miss all the fun!
Hope she was good to ya Joshy. You always remember your first. Or is that you always remember your best? ;) ;)
The Shadow
06-20-2003, 12:38 PM
I answered yes because i have
I think it can be a good release where people can be who they want without being or having to explain why.
Cybersex is very exhilerating! If you get someone on the other end that is good at it it can get you really hot imagining what they might look like. Not to mention you can usually have them in any position that you want (poking her in the rear works for me). I
It's safer then picking up someone in a bar most of the time (nothing like real pussy amd ass though)
Passion Please
06-20-2003, 04:11 PM
I lurked in the chatroom... J and SS were something else....was fun anyway....
Mercury_Maniac
06-20-2003, 04:44 PM
yes i've done, nothing really better to do i suppose
its the only sex that I can get
and don't really do it anymore, just because well just because
hornylass
06-20-2003, 05:05 PM
Thanks for everyones opinions.
Keep them cumming
;)
Luv ya all
Hornylass
:spank: :sex: :bfly: :heart:
Slow Ride
06-20-2003, 05:08 PM
yes, I sometimes enjoy cyber sex
but, typing with one hand is a bitch !!!
I can just barely type with two hands
LixyChick
06-21-2003, 09:51 PM
I know whatcha mean SR! ;) And.........typing with my toes is soooooooooooo out of the question! I've always said there is one flaw in the human make-up....I need three hands!
RandyGal
06-21-2003, 11:23 PM
Originally posted by dadaist
Yeah I have done it. Lots more often when I was younger than now. If there's a willing and above all creative and descriptive partner it can still be great fun. There are other things two people can do with distance between them though that I find MORE intense, but I'll shut up now ;)
What did you say dadaist?
"There are other things two people can do with distance between them though that I find MORE intense, but I'll shut up now ;) "
Don't you DARE shut up! LOL
Details please. The more the better. :p
Sugarsprinkles
06-23-2003, 05:07 AM
Originally posted by Passion Please
I lurked in the chatroom... J and SS were something else....was fun anyway....
Thanks for the compliment, I think. ;)
But that wasn't me with Joshka...............that was another of our sexy Pixie's ladies.
I was there alright, just not 'with' Joshka...........:wingang:
foosballfan
06-23-2003, 10:40 AM
I voted occasionally...it can be fun if the other person doesn't take it too seriously. after all, it's pretend-like sex anyhow.
erc25
06-24-2003, 02:25 AM
I would be under the occasionally statistics. Nowadays I guess I prefer to take it slow. And really get to know the person better. (Like sex on the sixth date). I like to know about the person better, having an attraction towards her (I am open minded, but I still can't do that with a guy !!). I like to really do it with a person, not just a name.
I know most would probably just ends that way. Although I do have a friend I have cybered for 4 years and counting :). We talked far more than cyber (it is like 98% talk and 2 % cyber). Although we never expect to meet in person, we still think of each other as close friends.
Cindy Kim
06-24-2003, 08:37 AM
I love flirting and being naughty online, and I'll be happy to give a guy a fantasy that he can masturbate to. For me, I don't really get into realtime cybersex, because I like to be able to type back, and practically speaking, that doesn't work with masturbating. But I will frequently masturbate after I sign off if I've had a steamy or sexy chat with a guy. I think it's healthy and safe to get a little kinky online.
Yes I have!
Will again.......... Sometime.
One of those things that happens from time to time.
hornylass
06-25-2003, 10:39 AM
I had no idea this thread would be so popular when I first started it...........
Thanx for all the replies and votes.........
........Keep them cumming ;)
Luv Ya
HornyLass
xoxoxox
:hot: :heart: :sex: :spank: :bfly:
ShadowRaven
06-25-2003, 05:12 PM
I do occasionally. I prefer it when it is someone I know and even better when it is a friend. To tell the truth, currently all my friends are people (mostly women, especially my two bestest friends (you know who you are ;) )) that I have only met online. Only one is close enough for me to actually visit but due to money and time problems neither of us are able to do so. It is also a great way for us to fantasize without actually doing anything....even better with webcams :D .
I do enjoy it when I get the chance but lately I don't have enough free time to do so.
dadaist
06-25-2003, 11:18 PM
Originally posted by RandyGal
What did you say dadaist?
"There are other things two people can do with distance between them though that I find MORE intense, but I'll shut up now ;) "
Don't you DARE shut up! LOL
Details please. The more the better. :p
Uh lets just say that new firewire powered iSight cam gives me some ideas, okay? Even if it IS $149.
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