So,
I ventured into the chat room...where I was bombarded with a pm or whisper or whatever you call them...

normal chat room protocol...asl.

I gave it.

Then came the question of "stats". I gave them...at least what I felt the important ones were...

I was prodded for weight. When I answered honestly, I was given the big slam.

My real question is, what difference does it make if you can't see me? Can't we share some dirty talk with you pretending I'm Cindy Crawford or something? AND...why is that an issue at all in the cyber sex world? I guess I'm a little peepee hurt.

Opinions welcome.

I'm honest..

While I dont walk into the room screaming...

"I'm 35, 6',180 and married..and have a small dick"

Just seeing if anyone is paying attention.

Its average not small.

If I'm asked I tell the truth..regardless of the question...of course I'm not a woman in a chat room to get bombarded with lots of PM's etc.

You do bring up a vaild point..why cant people just do what the rooms alow us to..and be "Cindy Crawford' and "Russel Crowe" or "Tom Cruise"?..and just have a good time.

I'm sorry that people are so crass and hurtful...but being honest again..what does it really matter, they are not your friends that are hurting you..just names on a screen. Who gives a rat's ass...Maybe next time..if you must, "fudge" it a bit, if you so desire.

I'll talk if we were to meet Ophelia..any time. ok?

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Here is my response to that question....

Age...old enough...
Sex...with a name like LoveDiva....Male
Location...at my desk...

Nothing bothers me more than going into a chat room (not just here)and being asked a/s/l or wanna cyber the minute you get in there...GET A LIFE PEOPLE!!!

If I wanted to cyber....I would PM you!!!
BTW...What's cyber???? LMFAO

But when I do chat...with people who are respectful...I am 100% honest. I have always said "I am probably the most honest person you will even meet ont he net" I have nothing to hide...(except a few nekkid pics from boyfriend!)

Ophelia..I am sorry you got slammed. Pixies chat room is usually a nice place to go and chat with the great friends made here...but you do get the ODD IDIOTS IN THERE!!!

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I have not ben brave enough to venture into the chat room. I can barely keep up with all the good stuff on the site.
O- you should be who ever you want to be. That can be the real you or not. Sometimes the identity people make up is actually their truth and sometimes it is a wish. If you want honesty be honest~ if you want to be sexy be sexy, however you see that as being~The people who really matter will see who you are and what you need! Tootles!Lilith~~~~> who is staying safely out of the chatroom for now

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Thanks for the input everyone! I know I shouldn't even give a crap. I usually don't. Yesterday I was having a "everyone at Pixie's is so great" day that I forgot humans are humans.

Thanks for the chatting offers. I'll watch for you, fellas!

Glad to re-affirm my initial thoughts...

Pixie's people are GREAT!

Muah!

Ophelia

Chat rooms are just not me.It may be wrong;but;I am very selective with the people that I want to tell intimate things!
I am no one special but you have to earn my friendship!Thats
just the way that I am and thats the way that I intend to be.
When I was younger;I made the mistake of being to trustful with
individuals and I got burned.Since then;I have become very selective. Irish
P.S.Your reputation ;is what; people go by if they don't know you
personaly!Having a motorcycle business tought me that!

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Irish-
thanks for your insight. I guess I was looking for some mid-afternoon entertainment. A quick chat, then a drift into fantasy land. I've posted several times that I am a lesbian, but often have fantasies that incorporate men...yesterday, I felt bold enough to explore some "cyber fantasy" of sorts. Unfortunately, the truth got me shut down.

No biggie...I managed to "entertain" myself!

As far as friendship online goes...well, I've learned some interesting lessons. Fortunately, I feel that message posts and forums are a great way to get to know me...cause I can say whatever I feel. I do, however, agree that friendship is something you have to earn.

Ophelia

Ophelia

I occasionally wander a couple of chats.

I hate the ASL barrage, so I am sometimes a 14yr

young girl from Dunedin in New Zealand, just long

enough to tittilate, then run away.

Normally, I am boringly honest.

There is a difference between chat and jumping headlong

into cybersex. The web is full of brash children of all ages

who are enjoying sexual confrontation without consequence.

They are immune even from the traditional slap in the face.

Some rooms are not so aggressive. Find some and relax.

Like Nut and Prophet, I'll chat openly anytime you wish.

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On the odd occasion I end up in a chatroom, I'm very honest...
And I would never slam someone for being the same. People shouldn't push for information if they are afraid of the answer.
Ophelia, if I started chatting with you in a room and we were getting into some sexy, hot conversation , I wouldn't even ask your weight, and if you brought it up, I wouldn't care... we're online.
I would care if it's someone I'm going to actually meet, 'cause honestly most men care about physical appearance. That's also not to say I would expect a woman to be a super thin supermodel. Just appealing to me... (which covers a broad spectrum!) Anyway, don't let it get you down! Like Diva said, you get Odd Idiots in there!

been in the chat room many times with many members, and had a great time....just being us

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I don't really go to the chat rooms but are far as honesty, I try to be myself at all times. I am what I am and if people don't like well thats too bad...for them. I like this place because I feel real here and the people here are real. I am not interested in Cindy Whateverhernameis. I would prefer real people with real desires,emotions, bodies,faces,etc. And I enjoy the openness of the people here. Sorry if I got carried away.

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Luv2please

I agree with luv2please.I have never been in a chat room and I
doubt if I ever will.It's just not me!I believe what he says about being honest about yourself.I am;who I am;and if people don't like that;that's the breaks.I am long past the point of trying to be what other people want.Peoples honesty about themselves is what attracted me to this place originaly. Irish

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I have been told many times that if you are yourself you never go wrong! Its a lot easier to remember the details!
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